Masturbating whilst they're asleep

I almost posted earlier but I think it is unrealistic to think that sex drives are always going to be in line in a LT relationship due to health issues, sleep patterns, etc. I have no issue with him doing that, especially when I have awful insomnia and struggle to sleep so if I was woke up for sex I would be angry.

Also, we have a healthly sex life but I find masturbation and solo play to be an enhancement, not a replacement for partner sex.

Agreed

Agreed also šŸ˜Š

I have a high sex drive and want it a lot more then my hubby so i have to admite id rather be woke for sex as i might not get it again for a while if he wanks alone. Such a waste lol id never ever mind being woke for sex i can sleep when im dead haha

I often wake in the middle of the night horny and it's not fair to wake her when she's knackered. It helps me sleep and isn't a problem. I would prefer to have sex but it's functional and fun let's face it!

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I do this fairly often I just get up to the toilet to have my orgasm but I do like to bring myself almost to the point lying next to her

You can always press the spot between your balls and bum before you come and it stops any mess.

Davy Brown wrote:

You can always press the spot between your balls and bum before you come and it stops any mess.

Don't believe it, but may try it anyway.

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I used to pleasure myself next to her (the ex) so often she just said to clean up the mess I made on her afterwards anyway, and as the top drawer always had spare boxers (as I never wear 'em) it was no problem.

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I've done it before, my wife wasn't angry about it but more disappointed she'd missed it! Is there not another room you can use while she sleeps?

I'm not dragging her downstairs asleep just so I can cum on the norks!

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Zephron wrote:

I'm not dragging her downstairs asleep just so I can cum on the norks!

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I've had a crappy morning but.... that really made me laugh!! ![](upload://lJMrTcqgi5lI1FOpb07OYOcv2YF.gif)![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)

Siren40 wrote:

Zephron wrote:

I'm not dragging her downstairs asleep just so I can cum on *her norks!

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I've had a crappy morning but.... that really made me laugh!! ![](upload://lJMrTcqgi5lI1FOpb07OYOcv2YF.gif)![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)

Glad you took it in the sprit it was intended ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

My ex never had as high sex drive as I have so I masturbated on several occasions with him asleep next to me, thankfully I'm not a noisy person!

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Was horny as fuck one night, OH had fallen asleep on the couch, so I whipped him out and had a good old tug! When I was about to cum, I moved into a position where I could slide my cock into her mouth! Came in her mouth, no complaints from her at all, she swallowed the lot and went back to sleep.

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I often masturbate while my wife is asleep, ever get myself close the finish in the bathroom
Or if im wearing boxers id continue until i cum
On occasions if my wife has woken and she knows what im doing she would tell me to make myself cum
If i was a morning pleasure and she woke to me masturbating she sometimes asks for her bullet to join in

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I generally wouldnā€™t recommend this to anyone. Could easily been seen by a partner as assault if things go wrongā€¦

I personally wouldnā€™t be able to sort myself out if my Mrs was asleep next to me, think it would feel abit weird. If she was asleep upstairs and I was still awake downstairs however, thatā€™s my time!

My husband wakes up most nights. He just lubes up and slides in me.

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I just go off to the bathroom andā€¦read a bookā€¦

I wank next to my Wife alsleep in bed about 3x a week. Have for years. She doesnā€™t mind. I usually tell her the next day. I would most of the time rather have sex but I am hornier than she is.
I used to have to be more careful as old bed made a noise but we now have a Tempur mattress and nothing moves :slight_smile:
Since pandemic I havenā€™t slept through the night. Wanking in the early hours, in bed relaxes me and helps me get back to sleep and occupies my mind. Never use porn to wank.

Done this for years :joy: She quite often does t in the morning when Iā€™m asleep :joy: