Yes as said it resembles a slit, also the “lips” tend to be bigger, can stick out more, look a bit crude and “abused” if you understand ? It will never look like a little star again.
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Yes that’s right. Looks a bit like it’s had collagen injected lips lol.
Lips and slit similar, but as not pretty as a vagina.
The neat * is no longer. But a nice (I) instead
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Yes I get you - I think I’d like to keep my neat little star 
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I can’t imagine it’s that now you’ve allowed it to be used and abused 
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Well I don’t put anything too huge in there - I’ll have to check it out later and see
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I like mine. I do think though if a doctor ever has to examine that area that they’ll see I like to put things in there. Cue acusing stare 
I should add, it’s not always big things, and it’s not often I do that.
I would generally be using an ‘average’ thickness toy penis as it’s so much easier to slip in and move in and out for stimulation and prostate rub.
If I’d stuck to just this I guess I’d still have a * but very happy with my (l) lol.
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My OH doesnt do any thing huge, mostly me and anything around my size or slightly bigger and its fair to say her starfish isn’t as small and neat as it used to be!! After plenty of sessions it has got quite easy with minimal stretching!!
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This has spured me on measure my own penis for girth and length to see what most anuses take during ‘normal’ anal sex insertion.
I’ve mastubated to an almost fully hard penis and measure 5.5" in girth and 6" long (from public bone (not pressing tape measure too hard into groin lol)
So 5.5" I will take as an average.
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When you are all training and stretching for a bigger plug how often and for how long do you wear the bigger plug.
When I’m moving up in size I wear the new plug every day for at least a couple of hours until I can take it relatively comfortably. I don’t ever want to lose the feeling of the final stretch and closure around the neck of the plug though.
Not that long @rockstar I get it in there, pull it out and reinsert a couple time then stop.
Only with thinner things (like penis girth) have I left it for long periods.
Going back to anus changing appearance I would also have thought it changes appearance with age aswell. A bigger more pronounced * is prosibly normal even for a virgin anus.
Therefore I think being probed by a ‘standard’ penis at 5.5" girth probably doesn’t change appearance.
However when we start to go upto say 7" and above, that’s probably when muscles etc begin to change.
That’s the thing about plugs, they stretch for the initial insertion but because of the design your anus goes back to a small size when it’s in, I can get a large plug in easy but a dildo of the same circumference is more work because it holds my anus open and that gets some getting used to. I usually go up to a larger plug after get a previous plug in easy but will not got up to a same size dildo as the new plug until I’m comfortable with the last dildo size. I have found working my anus this way has made it easier to increase sizes with no damage!
I must admit having a big dildo hold you open it the most amazing feeling.
And also my OH uses plugs to work herself open for sex but wears the plugs after more for getting ready for something up there than the stretch and the facts she likes it. We have got to a point with her anus that with plenty of lube we can just have sex without the stretching but she still prefers to prepare her anus first. X
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Yes this makes sense. I’ve tried large plugs before and not sure if that keen with the ‘restretch’ when you pull it back out. It can feel like its pulling at your insides a bit??
Thats why I’ve always used shapes like a penis.
And, if big I can’t always stand it for long and have pull it out again but without the ‘reverse restrech’
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Just been looking at penis size threads and see that a circumference of 4" is not out of ordinary
As I’ve only had my own penis at 5.5" girth, and porn as a reference, maybe I’ve thought 8.5" isn’t really that big and could be improved on - so maybe I’ll stop and keep with my max of 8.5" ? Unsure really.
And there’s the OH who won’t let me put it in her bum anymore. Maybe if I had been 4" girth she wouldn’t have minded.
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@Luv_big_toy would be interesting to learn how your anus has faired in appearance, has it changed since the eggplant 
incident and use of any other toys? Or is it still a neat *
If my question too ‘probing’ lol then don’t worry about answering. Just interested to hear how others anuses have ‘changed’ or stayed much the same after insertions.
Interesting @jamesansel & @Yes_man
I’ll have to ask hubby if there has been any identifiable changes!
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I’m interested if @Blonde_Bunny has done much anal. From the lingerie uploads on the last photos it looks like a bit of a star in-tact peeking out the sides. I think she is the only one who has posted anything that has a bit of a tease that has been allowed. Just asking…for a friend… 
I guess I’m wondering like @jamesansel how much changes the look/feel and how much stretching it could take before the star is gone? I do like the star look and would hate for it to “burn out”.
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My star * is definitely gone. “Burnt out” so to say. The resulting small ‘slit’ and ‘lips’ (l) are just great. PLUS It all works as it should.
Yes I would be interested to hear from others how things have changed in appearance and/or feel.
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My star hasn’t changed since I started anal play, I regularly play with 10 circumference buttplugs.
The stretch and fullness having a huge plug up my bum is awesome, but I also really enjoy just a finger stimulating my prostate.
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Yes. I have and do a lot of anal. A lot of anal. And my yes, my hole is still pristinely intact. 
I regularly use large and lengthy dildo’s for anal but always work my way up through sizes and lengths every session and I have no, nor have I ever had, any issues 
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Sorry - I think that was too pointed of a question. My apologies.
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