Re comments accompanying some pics e.g. @Chosen-one and @Justthe2ofus2007: You are so brave.
I’m not sure anyone here thinks, ‘I’m going to post pics of my gorgeous bod, to the envy of all’?
I think most of us who are not young, well-toned gym enthusiasts are posting despite our hang-ups. And that is really good news. Everyday bodies which have served us well and been loved - by ourselves and others.
An anecdote: my grandfather - long deceased - was a keen photographer. He entered a competition for ‘a beautiful photograph of a woman’. He won and other people who had entered were outraged because it was just a picture of my gran.
The judge pointed out the difference between ‘a beautiful photograph of a woman’ and ‘a photograph of a beautiful woman’.
I know there is a sexist element but this is decades ago and the point is that we can all be beautiful through the eye of a lens and through the eyes of our loved ones, even though we might not usually be confident in our bodies.
It might take a certain angle or the right lighting for us to see what others see and for us to change our perception of ourselves.
On a slightly different note watching porn with real couples and real bodies has helped me a bit as I thought certain areas of my body were disgusting looking…
But hey ho…after all these years they’re the same as theirs…
@CurvyJilly i much prefer amateur porn too, real bodies are much sexier.Also i prefer it with similarly aged people to me, it just doesn’t feel right looking at younger ones.
Aren’t we all! Guycandy! @DavidfromBirmingham; @D_and_E
But may faves from last night are the hour glass curves of @Justthe2ofus2007, particularly the first pic, so shapely!
Taking me a bit of time to get my head around the new layout.
Top Right Hand corner
Click on three lines (next to search glass)
Click on Your Photos
Click on Uploaded Photos 2020
See them now?
