If you Google or do a search for “how many times a month should men orgasm” there are quite a few articles from different well know papers and websites that say 21 times a month has been shown to help reduce the chances of prostate cancer in men.
I have never counted before but as January is quite a long month I’m aiming for 22 this month (21 as a back up) and every time I’ve cumed I’ve added a little discrete line on the calendar day to keep track and count.
I sent my long term wife some screenshots from the main websites and she said “21 that’s a lot!” but she’s on board and willing to try it out.
As always I’ve got her permission to watch porn and go solo by myself and have some me time with my toys, many of watch are anal or prostate related which must surely help with the prostrate health too.
Just in case you guys need a genuine excuse to encourage your partners for a bit more sexual activity you can now provide scientific evidence hehe!
My wife is mostly out of action during her time of the month but she gives me the occasional blow job during that time but it’s a good four or five days to get then frequency up myself.
I would say with my wife and myself I would normally average 12 to 15 times a month so 21 a month is a bit more but it’s been fun and will try to aim for a similar number in February too. Good luck
Read many years ago that a daily release helps prevent prostate trouble, even if it doesn’t work, it’s good for releasing endorphins!
21 times a month? I may just have to double up on that figure. You know; just to be sure. Currently attempting to find my way out of singledom as well so that’s another cracking reason to get out there.
21 times in a Month? You’re lacking, make an effort old chap!
I am not a man…but I average like twice a day. I orgasm when I wake up and before I go to bed so I am going atleast 60 times a month give or take
Just knock out 21 one of them in a single day and you’re golden for the month
I’m going to have to cut down quite a bit then…
Do prostate orgasms count?
I feel like this might have been a Lovehoney podcast interesting sex fact but I could also be totally making that up. My partner was happy when I discovered it
Those are rookie numbers!
I think most months I am under that, but might need to up my game. For health reasons of course
iv always wanted to count how many wanks I can have in a month but always lose count.
@Fire_Ice1 Interesting findings glad to hear of the additional benefits.
@georgieyeah85 - try keeping count on a calendar, diary or phone tally app hehe!
@VixenV - it might possibly have been a podcast as it was probably quite big news when it first came out a few years ago. @Melody1 - there’s no mention pf prostrate orgasms but guessing they would count / might even be more beneficial to stimulate and empty the gland. @300 - don’t cut down, keep going strong hehe.
@ScorpioDaddy - not sure if I could handle 21 times in a day hehe. Think back in my young hey days most I cumed with a very sexual girl was 5 times in a day. She wanted more too! I haven’t done a 2 or double in a day for a while as find I prefer 1 good one now as normally takes up a bit of time and clean up… @sharbur - that’s great to hear. My wife can orgasm very easily and quickly just using fingers on herself and she’s always said it’s easier for women than a man as normally less mess and cum going everywhere. Some of the articles did say there wasn’t any benefit for men twice a day but I can’t see the harm
I will be darned if I can remember what thread I covered this , but the exact number is not so important as just coming somewhat often . In my advanced age three times a day is about my limit . On first honeymoon as a young stud we went at it 13 times . After getting divorced and finding my perfect horny motorcycle riding girlfriend I mentioned to her . Lucky I was at the top of my body building years , she said we have to beat that ! So 14 times in about 12 hours . I have read no studies , but I am convinced ejaculating or cuming regularly keeps testosterone levels higher . Many friends my age are on therapy for low T , not me .
Haha! So is this like full orgasm or do 21 wanks a month count?
@AJSTAR - 21 wanks solo masturbation cums is fine too! @Oldman = hardcore numbers - I thought 5 times in a day was a lot but 13 to 14 cums is crazy. We have two son’s and quite busy lives now so not as much free time nowadays unfortunately. Porn availability, quantity and quality has greatly improved since the old VHS hidden tapes in a drawer days hehe!
21 times a month sounds good, the only downside Imy might be whittled down to a matchstick after the second month& all those orgasms could make you tired by the end of the month…
I’m lucky if I get 21 annually let alone a month!
To be honest I’d say we get closer to 8-10 a month between solo and couple’s play.