I love it when my OH moans. It is especially satisfying when she is in control of foreplay, and is getting hot as she turns me on. Its almost like a sexual thermometer, and I know when the temperature is perfect and she needs to be fulfilled.
it is a huge confidence boost when my oh moans and its a turn on too xx
Puts me off when she moans about the ceiling needing painting when I am on the vinegar strokes.
gunther wrote:
Puts me off when she moans about the ceiling needing painting when I am on the vinegar strokes.
Lol Bless!
I must admit i moan a fair bit, and swear!
I also LOVE a guys deep moans, so sexy!
:)
xxx
PinkPolkaDot wrote:
protectyournuts wrote:
Sex without a good moan is boring, my OH is known to be rather loud, which given some of the places we've lived has meant that we had to use gags etc which then adds to the fun
It has to be genuine though, like Ork said, the fake porn star-type moans are so ridiculously retarded.
Oh God yes, no fake moaning! Most offputting thing ever, I meant with a good legitimate moan! I find it that offputting we usually watch porn on silent!
Love a good moan x
CorrieA wrote:
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
OhItIsLove<3 wrote:
dotdashdot wrote:
I can't help moaning with pleasure! I'm quite loud in bed and I find it a turn on hearing myself moan if that makes sense!
My boyfriend is quite quiet but every so often he'll let out this deep, uncontrollable groan and it's so damn sexy! I love it when he does it when I'm giving him head.
This is the same with my boyfriend, and its such a confidence boost when he does!
Shame mine never did. And if I became self consious and ask if what I was doing was ok, the response would be a half sigh of 'yeah..' Not only did it knock me slightly, but it broke the mood too. Thing is, I knew he enjoyed what I did, he'd just refuse to let it show. Keep the masculine act away from these times, guys!
My Boyfriend is the same, even when giving him a bj he wouldn't make a noise, and if i asked him if he likes it i barely get a responce, maybe a nod. I'm not normally sure if he thinks it could be a lot better or its too good for him to respond. Only time i know he enjoys it is when he starts clenching to the bed and his whole body starts to quiver. lol.
It's a big boost of confidence when he does moan though.
Guys really need to learn to let themselves go when in the bedroom, it helps a lot.
Mines the same - has admitted that he doesnt enjoy dirty talk (seems noises dont come naturally to him either) the only time I know he is enjoying a blowjob is when he stokes my hand/head/body...
I agree that a man who is enjoying himself so much that he cant hold in a genuine moan is a HUGE turn on...
Ork wrote:
Why can't women leave men to they're manliness? It's not going to kill you not to pester him about it lol.
Lol, I never pester my Bf for not moaning. But whenever he does i tells him i like it or well he knows i do anyway. Some men just aren't moaners and that's ok. I think the main point we're making is that its nice when they do because its a confidence boost for us and a big turn on (unless its fake) :)
My gf moans and that is great. It's even better when we are alone so she can be extra loud, that is such a turn-on. I think it is fantastic, providing you know that it is for real and not an act!
For the record, I also moan a bit and that definietly works on her ;) x
We will both scream the house down if we have the chance. I (male) tend to be more vocal throughout sex - and I also moan while I'm going down on her, which she seems to enjoy. She's pretty quiet up until the point where she comes, after which it's a lot of screaming moreso than moaning :D
moaning and groaning is one of the best reasons for having sex.
i LOVE dirty talk!
i have a thing for swearing... i have no idea
It usually is, silence is just awkward and makes me really nervous. One guy I slept with was REALLY loud, and I mean louder than me loud, that wasn't a turn off as such it was just completely new to me and for a change I was worried someone else would wake the neighbours haha
Although having your partner suck on your finger during sex is hot, it also stops them from waking the neighbours/kids
Curious Male wrote:
Alyjough having your partner suck on your finger during sex, it also stops them from waking the neighbours/kids
i'm told to bite the neck to keep quiet :)
theres another couple of warblers here with me and oh lol
love a girl who moans n groans during sex its such a turn on ,have to admit im rather loud when cumming and seem to have a bigger orgasm if the girl as been groaning during sex
It's *lovely* when my partner moans - I take pleasure in her pleasure, and the knowledge that she's enjoying herself.
What's not to like?
Myself, I'm pretty noisy during sex.
I love it when my partner moans, but isn't very loud, ( I do wish she was a little louder, lol) I myself love a little moan or groan while having sex, I find it a great way to heighten the pleasure for myself. (if that makes any sense)
I love a good moaner! Moaning into hot, passionate kisses is amazing.
And the last threesome me and the mr had, I sat on her face while he penetrated her. Her moans channelled beautifully into me :D