We got a chastity cage for my boyfriend last year (Locktober) completely on a whim and to see if it would be for us at all. We played around with it for a week and it was definitely interesting but has been forgotten about since then.
He is open to trying it again for a week or so but just concerned about keeping it concealed and potentially wearing it away from the house. We are not looking to get deep into the chastity lifestyle at all but it would be fun to try it again. Does anyone have any tips or advice?
Unless heâs going swimming or putting a Lycra suit on for bike riding
No one is going to notice it, it just doesnât really happen. Itâs something youâll need to just trust and believe over time when wearing it outside the house
We have had fun with my hubby wearing a chastity cage over the last few years. It normally only for the day or night or maybe a few days but he has also worn it for a week quite a few times also.
Normally it is just if we are going out for the night or shopping for a few hours as @AJSTAR mentioned and it is a turn on knowing that he is wearing it. He wears tight shorts or briefs and it is not visible at all under jeans and jogging bottoms. Have fun with it!
I have recently discovered that I have a strong submissive streak within my personality. So, a desire of mine, is to be âownedâ in a sub-dom relationship, and be under the complete control of my Mistress/Madam. I would like one aspect of being owned, to be me being obliged to wear a lockable cock-cage, preferably one that has a sound tube which can be inserted part-way into my urethra. Even better, would be that I be made to wear a remotely controlled one! Actually, itâs giving me a raging hard-on just thinking about it!
We mostly do chastity play around the house but I did wear it for a full month after losing a bet with Sexterminatrix. Our shared female BFF (who was the subject of that lost bet!) said that it just looked like I had a slightly larger bulge than normal, which was under denim jeans and the padlock was positioned for minimum show.
Having said that, tight clothing (especially denim) is NOT your friend of you are wearing a cage as it can pinch the parts of your penis not encased in the cage, eg. the steel cage type. Wear tracksuit pants and a pair of bikini briefs and you should be fine.
@rockstar absolutely. I keep an emergency key at home for when Sexterminatrix is out or at work, otherwise she has my key around her neck. Mostly for her for the power trip, but also in case of a âwardrobe malfunctionâ that requires a quick unlocking.
