Late to the conversation but I’m wondering how you went one year on. Any luck?
I love wearing stockings and suspenders and revealed this to my wife when I first tried them. We had already been married for about 15 years by then and she knew that I had worn tights for a long time.
At first she was a bit thrown by the step up to a lingerie item but I assured her it was not a gender identity thing (I think that was her main concern that that was where it was leading). I also told her i loved wearing something that i loved her to wear and when i did it under my work clothes it made me think of her wearing the same sort of items which turned me on big time. Explaining all of that helped bring her on board and now she’s ok with it. She finds it entertaining and can’t help but giggle every time she sees me dressed up.
And then last year - after gently broaching the idea - we had sex for the first time both wearing stockings and suspenders. Was an amazing experience! Has only happened once but we talked about it afterwards and i am confident it will happen again as a special occasion thing.
I am completely with you regarding wearing lingerie that you know that a woman is also wearing and what a big turn on that is. Women have such an exciting and exotic range of underwear, baby dolls etc, and obviously get much pleasure from their lingerie. So I find it very exhilarating to do so as well and share in that pleasure. After all, why should women have it all to themselves!!!?
@C67 just take the plunge and try it
It’s a very liberating experience
I chat with the assistants about wearing different styles and colours etc and they are completely non judgmental and offer advice on colour combinations and accessories
I was really nervous about it to begin with but it just seems pretty normal now
I do like getting asked if I need help and then I just say yes I’m looking for some new ideas for wearing when I’m on cam with my other guys n cross dressers and we go from there I sometimes say a guys asked me to wear something particular like the baby doll set
And trying on items is an amazing experience too
The bra fitting was probably the ultimate one tho
I agree with many here including @chuckychester35 - it’s more acceptable now for a man to walk around a lingerie shop without ridicule- lingerie should be for all , but while it’s not the norm for men to wear lingerie, you should not have to feel awkward- just do it…
My husband every day wears his knickers, sometimes mine and during sex I ask he wears different outfits - mostly short shirt, knickers, suspenders and stockings - he feels amazing and looks good too . I would not like it any other way
I’m exactly the same. I wear knickers as everyday underwear but I dress up specially for sex. Since sex for us is usually me being pegged or hit with something I normally wear stockings and suspenders (or suspender tights), backless knickers and either a bra (for pegging) or a feminine crop top (for impact play).
@rockstar - totally agree when we have sex it involves spanking and then pegging - nothing finer that bending him over and then lift the skirt , pulling his knickers down before spanking and then pegging
I must admit I love the feel of women’s lingerie against my skin; especially silk and satin. Not into cross dressing as such but have worn the odd pair of silk knickers. Part of it was curiosity, wanting to feel how it felt from a woman’s prospective. I grew up an started work in quite an old school environment; where women still wore stockings and heels. I was teased and blushed easily. I guess that’s where the foundations of my lingerie curiosity started!
If you look at my separate threads ref mmf play some of my lingerie wearing has been incorporated into that
@batjamboree … its something that is lost on me…i just dont get it, but hey each to their own as it should be..
I get men enjoying the feel/look, its the female appreciation that puzzles me. My wife wouldn’t look good in my boxers i wouldnt think.
I’ll take it your word for it , that your Hub looks good in white stockings and suspenders…he will have some way to go to compete with your good self in your profile photo.
@Iwill - it’s one of those things- yes I look good in stockings (thank you for the compliment) but if a man enjoys wearing lingerie designed for women- then why should others be bothered - it’s not hurting anyone and it may be mentally beneficial
As for woman wearing men’s clothing- I do wear his shirts every so often, and s lot of women do …
It’s not my thing, but I once was seeing a mistress who ordered me to wear a pair of White skimpy knickers for the start of the session.
My cock kept flopping out , and she just laughed at me .
It was very humiliating, but the fact that she ordered me to do something that I wasn’t into was so erotic !
Something we’ve just recently gotten into. I’ve always had the urge but was embarrassed. Finally I decided to tell my wife that I wanted to wear stockings. Without hesitation but with no real emotion she responded “OK”.
Why didn’t I ask sooner!?!
Then came the lace thong.
Soon after I was having her tighten the strings of her corset that I put on.
16 yrs of marriage and we still surprise and impress each other.
Now I am asked to give her fashion shows.
Added bonus of dressing in lingerie while getting pegged is really boosting the role reversal aspect that I enjoy as well.
I love the way the material feels on my skin and between the stockings and corset I feel a comfort almost like my whole body is being hugged.
@batjamboree …Please dont misunderstand me…im not saying there was anything wrong with it !! Each to their own.
I’m probably like a lot of other guys that just dont get the female appreciation.
Now wonen wearing mens shirts, that can be such a hot look when worn as a dress for example.
As far as yourself, it wasnt a throw away line, you obvious have great legs and carry off the stockings look tremendously.
Quite agree with you @batjamboree regarding men who like to female lingerie, and whilst it’s not for everyone, there are a fair number who do and get a great deal of enjoyment from it.
As I have said many times before, we all have our different ways of getting our sexual pleasure as this forum illustrates.
Regarding women wearing men’s clothing, I think the main point here is that women’s lingerie is so much more varied and exciting than the equivalent mens clothing, hence the appeal to both sexes.
@SPstroker64 I think you’re absolutely right. There so many options for womens lingerie in so many types of materials and colours, whilst mens lingerie is limited to just plain thongs and the occasional costume which mostly come across as a bit of a novelty anyway.
If mens lingerie started using more satin, lace, bright colours and was spread further then just thongs then great, but until then womens lingerie it is. Theres also something about it being womens lingerie that myself and I’m sure others find very exciting. The role reversal makes me feel quite submissive which I’m really into.
@KinkFreak thats amazing that you could be so open with your wife! Sounds like a lot of fun for you both, hopefully I can get there with my partner one day
