I love being the Dom in the bedroom and I always give a good spanking to my man who enjoys being spanked
Recently I read about milking mid spank - that is where you as a Dom demand the sub masterbates in front of you and then after cum he gets further spanked with his balls empty.
I would like the opinion of both male and female as to thoughts over this and does it intensify the experience for the sub
Please let me know if you do this and any rules / hints you have as I love the dominatrix power
I’m the one who goes over my wife’s knee for a spanking and I love it
I usually get spanked with a paddle or cane but I have in the past been milked mid spank - I was told that I had 30 seconds to cum but longer I would get further punishment - I wanted as best as a could but took over 2 minutes to cum - all that time she was watching with a cheeky grin on her face and as I took too long I got the cane - the feel is totally different to when you got a full sack and I cannot take as much so I asked for the paddle / hand as you do feel a lot more
I suggest milking about 70-80% way through the spank as it will hurt the sum more especially if they already have a very red bottom
I would do a timing factor so he needs to wank off within strict times and if you want - get him to drink his own cum
As a dominatrix you are in charge and he will like the milking - you also may wank him off yourself
Thanks for the info - glad you like it
I would not get him to drink his cum as I won’t take cum in my mouth so wouldn’t expect him to take it.
God knows why it tastes and feels so bad…
I think it depends on whether or not he loses his horn when he orgasms. If he does, then spanking afterwards may not be enjoyable for him, or maybe that would be what he would like, if it would turn him on.
My wife isnt in to cum in mouth either.
I have read that the taste can vary dramatically and can be influenced by diet.
Id imagine the texture is fairly consistent though.?
No worries about me getting off too much, since I started out female. Having my sensitive parts spanked is amazing since I have been more in my boy form. I feel like I get so firm that I can’t get it spanked hard enough.
Usually I lose most of my cream in the first 20 seconds of our session, but often in the middle of the spanking I will feel his fingers wrap around my two throbbing inches and squeeze/pull/rub. Whatever liquid is left inside me comes dribbling out.
My wife is happy for me to cum in her mouth but she says it’s like a mouthful of wallpaper paste (I don’t know how she knows what that’s like .) For the first time ever we’ve just tried her kissing me with a mouthful of cum , and to be honest, although very sexy, I can see where she’s cuming from - taste OK, texture meh
As meatloaf once said I’ll do anything for love but I won’t do that - I’m the same and god knows I have tried so many times and did all the tricks like pineapple but a mouthful of warm salty / metal slime it’s just not for me
Its texture for me but thatcfollows through to normal life. I dont like custard, cream, mousse etc so its not surprising i dont like the texture of cum. I will on occasion let him cum in my mouth but need to make sure that im deep throating so that it goes straight down
Im female and the sub in our relationship but as @spanking_for_fun said, it can make it much more painful after an orgasm. Our arrangement is that he can edge me while spanking as i can take a lot more but as soon as hes allowed me to orgasm, no more spanking. If he wants to do anymore it will be grabbing and twisting the sore bits or using a pin wheel. I can still take a bit of pain but the want for floggers, spankers, belts etc isnt pleasurable at all
Men - can I ask do you like being milked and after you cum do you totally loose it all or do you still stay horny
I want to do this for my husband as he has asked me - (he is dressed as a maid and I’m in my cat suit and spanking him for being a lazy maid - however his massive cock is bursting through his knickers and so I release the beast and get him to wank off in-front of me ( giving him a tiny time frame) then when he cums collect the juice in an egg cup and get him to drink it - then continue to spank him until his bottom is red raw and I feel he has been punished enough- then get him between my legs do I can sit on his face)
In regular sex, does your husband continue with sexual acts and have the desire after he orgasms?
I think that’ll determine if the desire will be there to drink, be spanked and give you oral. Because otherwise its filthy and I love it.
This sounds super sexy @batjamboree. If it works, have a great time! For my part I lose the desire. But I think if my OH did continue to spank me or pinch my nipples say, then after a while I might be up for it - in all senses of the phrase! You’ve given us the idea to try it.
.) For the first time ever we’ve just tried her kissing me with a mouthful of cum , and to be honest, although very sexy, I can see where she’s cuming from - taste OK, texture meh 
