I often find well written stories a lot more erotic than visual stimulation.
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I agree! The mind can be such an erotic tool. My erotic mind can go crazy when I write 
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Iām a fan of MM, that would be my āreach forā porn. Iāve only had the privilege to watch it once in a 3some scenario. Though in my head I was just there to watch 2 people that had been dancing around it for a while, that was very sexyā¦until they wanted me to join, forgot it was to be MMF and not MM on one bed and F with a cup of tea on the other bed 
but we had a good time anyway 
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Huge lover of MM. Iāve been lucky to watch, sometimes join in and occasionally had some larger group fun when I had the ability to peg.
As for porn, I like watching circle jerks, men shaing fleshlites, or the more sensual stuff like starting with a massage. Im not much of a fan of the hardcore sex scenes and scenarios.
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Love that. Men can be as sensual and intimate as a female when they play together:)
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Absolutely. I dont mind watching rougher stuff in person, but I wouldāve had some spanking and flogging impliments! 
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No; I feel same really. The scenarios Iāve been in have been usually soft and deeply intimate; taking time to explore one another, massage and feel, feed of the ways a woman does things. Always loved to involve the lady too, hubby holding her hand whilst I attended to him, her joining in, using, silks, nylons. Even alternating from entering her and going back to Mm.
To me all about intimacy and feeding off each other. Have experienced some lovely, intense scenarios which Iām happy to share privately with like minded people. I have been slightly full on in a few scenarios though and used some implements similar to what you have described.
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It certainly is Iāve been lucky to have had a few experiences in the past. So love to share the intimate pleasure with a couple again sometime!
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Definitely a turn on for me. To have OH watch a guy and me suck and fuck each other. Maybe one day
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Hope one day you get to do. Itās such an erotic thing to do; especially in the presence of a lady!
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Funnily youāll find now on a lot of gay dating apps thereās straight couples and even women joining up in the exploration of wanting to partake or watch two men play with each other. I reckon this could be a new trend going about 
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Thatās quite the ask @AJSTAR.
I wouldnāt be willing to have sex with my wife on front of someone, I wouldnāt expect that you being gay makes it any different.
Itās not about being straight or gay, its about being exhibitionist.
I find those requests on your dating sites quite cheeky, but perhaps i read too much into it. So long as everyone has fun.
Edit: thinking more about it, if a male was joining on a lesbian dating app hoping to watchā¦ i dont think that would go down too well. What happens to those requests on your dating sites? Do they get removed or are they allowed?
Itād be interesting to see what happens the othernway around too. So many questions!!!
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Welcome to the forum.
Some years ago my husband went on webcam while I was asleep and performed for another guy. I was deeply offended, but there was something else that confused me: I was also incredibly turned on. I realised then that what offended me wasnāt that my husband would get off with another man, it was that he did so behind my back.
MM is one of those things for me - itās not the only thing, but itās one of my things
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My ex used to love it, she got turned on by it so much and really wanted to see it happen for real.
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Yes I tend to keep clear of them all really as not my thing but I know many friends whoāve mentioned about the recent rise in profiles showing up and they get confused and annoyed if itās a woman having joined and is wanting to sit in on watching two men go at it 
The last one I saw online was quite the random one as seemed like this lady was after a man she could dominate and be a mistress to which good for her but felt like sheād come to the wrong place for that unless she was trying to catch out any curious straight guys lurking online looking to be made into a submissiveā¦
Crazy confusing times we live in on the internet!!
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My ex used to make me suck her dildo and pretended it was a guy while she got off. It was incredibly hot
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My OH loves me to do just that. She watches me masturbate and try to deep throat her realistic dildo. Always results in a fantastic orgasm for her. Sheās not so keen watching MM porn strangely, but I quite enjoy it 
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Mrs W here ā¦
This is one of our longest-lasting fantasiesā¦ we start off in MFM with an additional male with Mr W and myself, but the additional male takes an interest in Mr W ā¦ we have discussed this at length many times. Mr W has absolutely no interest in other men but he would allow another to suck him off in our scenarios and he would return the favour. However, when I ask if Mr W would allow the other male to penetrate him anally, Mr W responds with āIt all depends how hot the actual scenario is - the hotter the action, the greater the possibility that he may allow himself to be penetrated anally.āā¦ we always get so hot discussing this ā¦xx
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My experiences are similar to you. As Iāve wrote previously I love in a 3sum everybody is turned on and often itās a natural, sexy progression if everyone is feeding off its other and feels turned on. A lot of my experiences have just been go with the flow and see where it takes us; fondling, sucking, stroking, playing. I have had sex with a guy whose wife was very turned on; that was a while ago; my first time. Doesnāt usually happen a lot but I think Iām in a position to build on that if it felt right and progressive at the time.
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