The Eroscillator, Vixskin Dildos, Crystal Delights glass toys, the Lelo Mona 2, Tango/Touch and magic wands (of one brand or another) are supposedly among the top toys according to various bloggers.
I was disappointed by the Vixen Goodfella (nothing wrong with it, but not right for me either), the Mona (vibrations not rumbly enough), the Bodywand Original (vibrations too buzzy - worse than Mona's) and I don't like glass toys at all, most of the time. The Eroscillator is one I don't have because I've come to the conclusion that it would be all wrong for me. I'm also pretty sure that I wouldn't like a Tango or Touch enough to justify spending anything close to full price (if they ever come my way at 60 % off I'll probably buy them, though).
The other conclusion I've come to is that it doesn't matter what is popular and well-reviewed - sex toy preferences are completely individual. Probably my most-used toy is the Venus Butterfly http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22172 which probably does not have a single enthousiastic review in blogosphere - it's saved me a lot of lube, though! Other favourites of mine are the Happy Rabbit 2 and the L'Amourose Denia. And the Bedtime 10 Function Butt Plug - till the controller died on me.
Actually, the HR2 and the Denia are so fabulous that my wish lists contain very few toys nowadays. All I really want is a rumbly clit/G-Spot vibe to replace the Mona - either a We-Vibe Rave or a L'Amourose Rosa/Rosa Rouge/Prism. And Fun Factory's Miss Bi would probably be a nice rabbit, though it's much more likely that I'll grab the LH HR2 G-Spot when they give it away the next time... For the others, I'll wait for the next Christmas sale...