hello everyone.. i really dont think i have a g spot .. any tips on how i can find it .. also what will happen when i do.. i have just ordered the cupids g spot vibrator ... is it any good
thanks ladys xx
I haven't tried that toy but there are lots of reviews you can read through :) I have found a couple of previous threads with some great advice that you might find helpful - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/689618-g-spot-or-not/ and http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/63086-what-helped-you-find-your-g-spot/
I actually found mine with this dildo http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 - I managed to squirt for the first time from firm pressure on the g-spot :) xx
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9030 This just pounds mine lol, it's really intense and quite a lot to handle but it's amazing if I'm in the right mood for it :)
It'll likely feel uncomfortably like you need to pee. Don't look for a pleasureable spot, just a spot that feels different when you poke it. You may need to learn to assosiate the sensation with feeling pleasureable so just concentrate on finding somewhere on the front wall of your vaginal canal that feels different to the rest. If you feel inside with your fingers, pointing towards your belly button, you should be able to feel a rough, spongey patch around 2-3 inches up. Rubbing or applying pressure to this area should produce the 'need to pee' sensation (but don't worry, you won't pee).
I found that toy gave pretty strong g-spot stimulation, so hopefully you'll find it easilly enough with the toy even if you can't locate it with your fingers. A gentle rocking motion as opposed to thrusting the toy in and out worked better for me. Experimenting with firmer and more gentle pressure is good, if you've located the g-spot and stimulate your clit at the same time you'll likely experience a stronger orgasm than usual (a 'blended' orgasm). I would advise you go for a blended orgasm before you try to orgasm from g-spot stimulation alone as for many women it's a lot easier to achieve a blended one :)
I find the easiest way to find it is with my fingers. I've tried g-spot toys but they're just not as good. With your finger you can apply the right amount of pressure. Give it a go! It's not always very obvious but there should be a more sensitive spot that feels a bit squishy!
Lovebirds_x wrote:
It'll likely feel uncomfortably like you need to pee. Don't look for a pleasureable spot, just a spot that feels different when you poke it. You may need to learn to assosiate the sensation with feeling pleasureable so just concentrate on finding somewhere on the front wall of your vaginal canal that feels different to the rest. If you feel inside with your fingers, pointing towards your belly button, you should be able to feel a rough, spongey patch around 2-3 inches up. Rubbing or applying pressure to this area should produce the 'need to pee' sensation (but don't worry, you won't pee).
I found that toy gave pretty strong g-spot stimulation, so hopefully you'll find it easilly enough with the toy even if you can't locate it with your fingers. A gentle rocking motion as opposed to thrusting the toy in and out worked better for me. Experimenting with firmer and more gentle pressure is good, if you've located the g-spot and stimulate your clit at the same time you'll likely experience a stronger orgasm than usual (a 'blended' orgasm). I would advise you go for a blended orgasm before you try to orgasm from g-spot stimulation alone as for many women it's a lot easier to achieve a blended one :)
This is spot on advice, fantasticly written. Theres not much i can add as this covers everything you need to know about locating the g-spot and achieving orgasm Xx
My oh has majic hands and works Mine brilliantly. I can locate it easily with my finger's, feels softer and squishy a couple of inches in but prefer using toys as my fingers aren't as majic as ohs lo!, I.e my fav glass dildo along with my fave wand which works a treat.
slinky 💖xx
Whats the best way to use the gspot vibrators for squirting? Rocking or thrusting, my partner likes both but I wondered what works best for you slow and firm or fast? Or both?
This was the toy that finally found it for me: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30909
Try NOT inserting it all the way in and holding it still.
I would also recommend this glass toy: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32877
Good luck!
A bit of male experience here - hopefully of some use! I've found the g-spot usually a couple of inches up the fron wall of the vagina. Sometimes it feels 'squishy' as others have noted, other times smoother than than the skin around it, and sometimes rougher, but always quite different to the rest of the vaginal wall. But touching it usually causes some sort of reaction - how strong varies from woman to woman. It's' aways gives me pleasure to find the right place for the ladies I've made love to, though :-)
My OH thought the G-spot was a myth until we found it now she she can't get enough of it!!!
With her I found it's about a fingers lenght in and if I curl my finger forward towards her clit, you can feel a change in the texture of the vagina wall lining, it goes from smooth to a patch thats textured, almost rough feeling, Thats I would say is roughly where the G-spot is! She has had the want to pee feeling from stimulating it so we know squirting might be possible but she either cums first or the uncertainty of what goes to happen causes her to tense up and stops everything in its tracks!
She so wants to ejaculate but frustratingly it's just not happening for her!