Good Day all,
Hope you are having a fantastic day
Long story short, wife and I fell head of heels for each, got married, become parents to 2 and need sex understandably fell away for my wife and I accepted for sometime id just take of myself when needed.
It’s been 5 years since or last addition to the family, but our sexual life is non existent. I say sexual life because it’s not just actually the act of sex I miss, it’s the flirty banter, the build up to some action, the feeling of wanting someone and not being made to feel (unintentionally) shameful for doing so. But also feeling physically wanted by someone.
I have tried everything to reduce stress, as I am self employed and work from home I do 90% school runs, lunches, house work.
And I think I have come to to the conclusion that it’s how negative my wife is about her body that is what’s stopping her reclaiming her.
I am kind lost as to how to help her? I tell her all the time beautiful she is and how her body is incredible. But she can’t see it?
Anything I can do to help her regain her confidence?
Thanks in advance.