So, been married for over 20 years but always looking to keep things spicy, so was watching the grand prix upstairs in the bedroom while OH was downstairs, and for the first time I decided to send her a pic of me in my see-through underwear and invite her up 30 minutes later… it definitely worked!
We’ve not sexted before, but she was really pleased and said she’d be keeping the pic (securely) on her phone to view again.
So I wondered, what things haven’t you tried, or have put off, but think you’d like to give it a go?
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Sounds like alot of fun. 
For me, Thats a pretty long list. Basically mostly things that involve more than one person as im solo.
Anal (using a dildo) is something i really want to try but keep putting off. Need to just jump and have a go i think (things are always more scary in your head).
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Solo play is just as much fun you could use a butt plug when out shopping then use suction dildos. So you can have a bit of dp
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Hi @Green_Eyed_Girl,
Sorry to hear that you are single, but that does not stop you having solo fun. To go straight to a dildo anally would not be a good idea (as I’m sure you know)
I started with a finger, then two and plenty of lube for solo play. I can now accommodate the LH Realistic 6" Dildo and it is great fun!
Slowly, slowly wins the race x
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Thanks for the advice ive been using butt plugs for about 2 yrs now and have a small collection up to 4.75” circumference that i use regularly (started shoping for my first 5”ish one the other day). Ive bought myself a nice slim dildo as a starter (3.75” circumference. Hopefully thats a good starting place). Tips are always welcome.
@Wingmanbdsm dp is definitely on my list of stuff to try. I Don’t usually combine a butplug and a dildo but i should do it more often 
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Solo play is so different to being with someone you should always take it slow its a marathon not as sprint
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Whoops @Green_Eyed_Girl ,
I am obviously preaching to the converted!! 
Seriously…If you have been using butt plugs, then go for the dildo. You won’t regret it 
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No worries. Its always worth checking. So easy to bite off more than you can chew when it comes to anal
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Ha ha…been there and got the Tee Shirt…“Ouch” 
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