Noisy or quiet?

It's great in an empty house..... you can scream all you like, talk dirty aloud and then groan as you come..... mmm mmm!

I am very vocal and when there are others in the house I do bite my hand or put the pillow over my face ... My boyfriend says he loves it want I'm noisy! So when there are others in the house I tend to moan quietly but the lads that live with my boyfriend complain and say that I should definitely be more vocal cos it is better than listen to the music through the walls ... I still try to be quiet when they are in the house. I do love making a noise though, it just comes out when im woth my fella, it hasn't with any other male i've slept with (which isnt many) but my boyfriend just gets me really going and I love him making me noisy! Plus my man tells me when he is gonna come, he asks me if I am near my climax and he loves talking dirty to me as well... But yeah! Really, its more to do with comfort and security if a guy is really comfortable and doesnt care if he is heard then he will make a lot of noise!

I am noisey. My most recent ex lived with a female flatmate so I had to be quite when she was in. He had to tell me a few times to be quite. My ex before him had his own place so I could be as loud as I wanted. I would always get a knowing look from his neighbours.

interesting how most people are generally constrained by noise that might wake up children! We have exactly the same problem. I am quiet but missis is loud. I have recently started to hold my hand over her mouth which is quite a turn on (and muffles her sound at the same time). I really can't be loud, just not in me but I love the sex - getting a guy to make noises superficially isn't likely to improve the atmosphere.

My Oh can be very loud when having a very intense orgasm... screaming, swearing etc you get the drift... whereas I am quite quiet , it does generally differ between the sexes although a bit of dirty talk leading up makes it all the more fun!! x

In an empty house I like to make some noise. If my oh's Mum is in the house I have to be quiet or silent completely. My OH though is completely silent all the time and I do wish he makes a little noise at times. I love it when on a rare occasion he slips out a moan. He knows I love it and want him to but he just wont or cant. I don't have suggestions for you apart from telling him you want him to make some noise.

Noisy is always good, but they only tend to happen during those knee disabling, head spinning orgasms. My wife and I tend to be quieter during those wave like orgasms. Kids in the house don't really encourage you to be vocal. That's why naughty weekends away are always fun!

I love my wifes moans and screams, but with a 6 year old next door, I do worry. So often we shag down stairs after he's gone to bed.

I tend to be noisier when having g=spot orgasms, compared to clitoral ones, despite the fact they both feel similar in intensity. I feel quite lucky that my partner is also quite vocal with his moans and breathy comments. I know men tend to be quieter but guys, you should definitely let loose more on the vocals...after all, you being noisy turns us on just as much as guys get turned on by women being noisy (Supposing a hetro relationship)

I am vocal and he is when he comes

OH can be very loud, but depends on what sort of sex we are having..... I'm not so much, more moans and groans and a few swear words maybe.... Wife says that's what she finds a turn on.

Years ago I was with someone who liked me to be very vocal and descriptive and crude.... really off putting, felt like I was faking it all the time.

I'm definitely more vocal if I've had a few drinks, my hubby is very quiet, generally just a moan as he cums.

Do you want him to just moan more or talk dirty?

Fluffbags wrote:

I tend to be noisier when having g=spot orgasms, compared to clitoral ones, despite the fact they both feel similar in intensity. I feel quite lucky that my partner is also quite vocal with his moans and breathy comments. I know men tend to be quieter but guys, you should definitely let loose more on the vocals...after all, you being noisy turns us on just as much as guys get turned on by women being noisy (Supposing a hetro relationship)

Interestingly enough, I find this too, and I hadn't properly made the correlation until you mentioned it here. But yeah, I can make almost no noise when I have a clitoral orgasm, but I find it basically impossible to keep totally quiet when having my g-spot stimulated.

I'm pretty noisy, when the sex is good I can be a bit of a screamer! Find it almost impossible to be quiet and if there's a chance we might be overheard I usually get gagged or have to moan into a pillow!

I can be noisy but normally I try to keep the noise down because of the kids.

I've been with a few guys who where noisy and god I found it really off putting. I has one ex who sounded like a dodgy porno lol

We're both moderately noisy - especially if we're at it for a long session. It's a bit of a turn on though, when in a crowded house, to try and keep quiet throughout.

OH can be noisy, but has to control herself so not to wake the kids.