Turns me on knowing hes getting horny thinking of me love it, would love to catch him i would take over
I find it such a turn on, I love watching him x
I know my OH does it, he never tells me but I know when he has so when I ask he'll say yes. He says that he has too otherwise it hurts? So when I hear that, Its not a turn on but if he does it when im there then its great, like it says in my profile, I love cum on me... But it has to be in the bath / shower so that I can was it straight off. (I have an allergy) but yeah, depends on the situation... Most of the time, it is a huge turn on!
Really it should be the OH responding to this. But But onwards, I regularly masturbate (including prostate play in front of her). However I think it has become such a norm, I think her need to join in may have subsided.
Ooh I kinda wanna catch him at it now so I can watch then join in ;-) will have to think up a way of bringing this about...
MrsB is quite happy for me to 'knock one out' if she's not up for it. She tends to help out by lending a hand or caressing my balls as I'm at it.
Quite often she'll ask me what I'm thinking about or which situating I'm using from the 'wank bank'
MrsB is quite happy for me to 'knock one out' if she's not up for it. She tends to help out by lending a hand or caressing my balls as I'm at it.
Quite often she'll ask me what I'm thinking about or which situating I'm using from the 'wank bank'
I used to hide the fact I masturbate and watch porn, but one day I let my OH catch me doing both! I was so nervous of her reaction...she came in...looked at what i was doing and walked straight out. Thats it...I know how she would react. So I was getting close to finishing and she came in dressed all nice and finishe me off....great night!
If I'm out then I don't mind :) I do mind if I'm in the house and he hasn't tried it with me. I love to watch him wank during foreplay x
I have come to the conclusion that wanking is just a part of a mans life. I have to deal with it. Ones I accepted this I found myself enjoying him wanking more.
After my colonoscopy I was not allowed to have sex for a while and I bought this vib. vagina box thingies for him to play with, so that he would have some variation those sex-less days. I got curious, and decided to use it on him, and I really loved it, specially when he took over / did it with me until he came. Ended up being an interesting couple of days.
Had him sitting over my chest and wank until he came, got it all over my chest area and neck, he absolutely loved it! :D
I don't mind my OH helping himself out, especially as we don't live together so some nights we're all alone. I'd say I may mind a bit if we were living together as I'm pretty much always up for it. But, we'll cross that bridge if we ever come to it!
Before we moved in together, we both used to masturbate freely, but since moving in, our bedroom dynamics have developed over time into a more D/s style, with chastity and orgasm denial playing a leading role over the last 10 months or so. So, he isn't allowed to masturbate without permisson., which he never asks for, simply because he would rather I lent the helping hand.
I have discovered that he doesn't like being watched. (Like lots of men on here have commented they would like) If I am helping him in any way, words, touching etc, he has no issues, but if I make him sit there and do it for me, while I stare silently (hehe) performance anxiety kicks in. I just take advantage of that by denying him for a week or so and then offering him up an orgasm if he sits and does it himself in front of me (Which more often that not, fails and frustrates the crap out of him lol)
As for me, I often play in front of him, and it turns him on, which turns me on in return. One of the most enjoyable things for me is when we mutually masturbate. We feed off of each other.
When we're not together we both masturbate and tell each other about it too. When we're together I sometimes do though I'll keep it to myself being that I know she would feel hurt.
I have had and still have this as a massive fantasy. I love to masturbate in the morning with the hope of the wife catching me. Half the time she finishes me off and the rest of the time she loves to watch me. We played a fantasy out once where she came down and caught me wanking. She made me carry on and cum on her tits and then made me sleep in the spare room for being naughty. It was an amazing sub feeling and we have acted out different scenarios since.
oooh DavieBoy that sounds epic. will have to try that at home :P
My husband never does anymore unless I tell him because he says he prefers sex and we have sex whenever he wants. I usually do it for him because I like it. On the odd occasion he is horny and I'm ill or something, I tell him to do it himself but can't stop from joining in anyway!
My OH and myself always have a little play and we both know the other watches porn... I guess the only time I'd be bothered was if I was in bed and he didn't try and wake me or just pounce on me...
But I have a VERY high sex drive and nearly always horny - just from a little kiss... so when he is horny it's always good...