I loooove older guys. I’m 23 and I always have. I love middle aged men, there’s always sweet and some are so fucking hot. What a great feeling making them so hard and making them want to fuck you so bad. My boyfriend is 11 years older than me and he’s amazing
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Good for you. Glad you have found your niche and having a fulfilling relationship.
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My sister’s experience with older guys has not been great. When she was 19 her boyfriend who was in his forties gave her a womb infection and she ended up in hospital, they to!d her it was because of his personal hygiene. He then got her pregnant. Her next boyfriend who became her husband (he was at least 20 years older) gave her herpes as he was having anal sex with prostitutes, he was also a nasty piece of work and she ended up in hospital a few times with head injuries where he would try and strangle her and bang her head on the floor. She divorced him after about 18 months. Has had a few relationships since again with older men, one she found out was having an affair with a transgender woman. At some point she must have got hpv when giving oral because four years ago she got cancer of the mouth which she was told that was the cause. She is ok now but it has left her physically changed. She can no longer physically give bjs as she can not open her mouth wider than a finger width. So her experiences have put her off dating older men and her latest boyfriend is only 7years older than her.
Me I always dated younger men never had a boyfriend older than me.
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My last three gals were much younger than me (18 years) I went out with a twenty four test old 40. We had a child together. She’s became obsessed with controlling every part of my life. After her was an even younger gal she went to graduate school across the country. After 2 1/2 Years this long distance relationship fell apart. I am currently with another gal who is 18 years my junior. She has two children ad we have an incredible relationship. Sex is the best it has ever been (though we’re still trying to get my fatty into her-she’s a small gal). I had dated her briefly years ago and she loved me then but we went separate ways. Now we are together and things are going beautifully (she’s willingly offered me the reins to dominate her). Stay tuned
Sweetheart I’m going to be honest with you. These men aren’t sweet because they want you, they’re sweet because they have a want and you make it easy. There are men out there who predate on young, easy women, and I too have had experience of that - I was young, dumb and horny once too.
What happened?
He was 18 years my senior, and he blackmailed me after I let him him go down on me one time (because I was young, dumb and horny). He told me that I had to be his dirty little secret after that, otherwise he would tell my parents how much I wanted him between my thighs (I thought we were friends). I was terrified, so I had to keep sending all the nudes he wanted, cumming down the phone for him (I always faked it) and listening to him get off - I hated it because I knew he had a girlfriend but I couldn’t risk him telling my Mum.
He used to try and arrange to see me too, and knowing he was seeing other women and girls, I always used to make excuses not to be able to meet. Fortunately, he never did infect me with anything.
It ended with me getting into a serious relationship. He hated me for that so much, he threatened to rape me the next time he saw me on the street. When I eventually broke my silence and went to the police, he denied even knowing me. Fortunately, his girlfriend took my side - he had been abusing her too, and she didn’t believe he was faithful.
That’s not to say that all older men are bad, some are genuinely amazing people. But if you think they want you because that’s what you give to them and nobody else can match you, you’re only fooling yourself: you’re their next, not their last. Stay safe.
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Totally agree with you. My sister had a really rough time she also got involved with the married bus driver trainer who was training her. He really messed with her head. he got the boot in the end as he tried it on with the wrong woman who reported him. Not all older men are this way thankfully, she just seemed to attract the bad ones.
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There are some real chancers out there. Some years ago I was on vacation in Cornwall and a holiday rep started being friendly to me, so me being me and thinking friendly people want to be my friend, I started being friendly back. He asked for my number and again, thinking it was purely platonic, I gave it to him, so we started texting. One night he asked if I wanted to have sex with him in his car on the dunes and I refused and told him I have a boyfriend, he text back and said “you have a boyfriend, I have a wife!”. So I told him we should end it and we did, but any time I went on holiday there, where he still worked, he would text me again. One day he was working the arcade and my family was playing pool and the white ball got stuck in the table, so he had to come over to help. Before he left us he pinched my ass then kept texting me all the things he wanted to do to me. I went to reception and reported him in the end. If you let them get away with it, they will, and they’re not always the helpless victims they make themselves out to be.
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Good for you. Unfortunately my sister then was not so confident to report the trainer herself it took a stronger woman to do that.
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I’m sorry to hear that. I hope she’s found her voice now.
She had to have part of her pallet removed, her tonsils, all her molars the bit that dangles at the back of her throat and her jaw was sawn in half so they could get to everything. So she can speak but can be difficult to understand. She has trouble swallowing and part of her mouth feels like she has been to the dentist and she is recovering from an anaesthetic (that tingly numb feeling) and sometimes when she drinks it comes out of her nose. So you can understand perhaps why I am so dead set against involving other people in our relationship. When you see something like this and see what the results can be it is a shock to realise what a bj can cause in the future.
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That’s horrendous, I’m so sorry. It’s also why I’m very partocular about anyone I do get involved with. Too free and easy about sex? It’s a no from me. It’s not about being “frigid”, it’s about being careful.
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Love comes in all kinds of pairings 
Younger women dont do it for me…I love mature sexy women.
Also, as much as I can admire younger women, I can imagine them being attracted to a guy 25_30 years older than them.
A bit contradictory, but when i was 25, id have jumped at the chance of getting it on with a 55 yr old woman .
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