i supose just worried she wont come and ill get my hopes up :/
oops didnt see ur posts guy sorry
yes i will be safe thanks gunthere
kinkycop i would aswell, she has a fetish but im not sure about it it involves the food that comes out ? :(
It sounds like you may be a bit unsure she'll turn up? Have a back up plan... maybe a night out with your mates so you're not sitting at home on your own if she's a no show. I'm in my (very) early 40's and an much more relaxed about things now than I was when I was younger. I know what makes me tick now, hopefully she'll be the same and will be able to share that with you. She was a virgin once too, remember.
funguy1234 wrote:
oops didnt see ur posts guy sorry
yes i will be safe thanks gunthere
kinkycop i would aswell, she has a fetish but im not sure about it it involves the food that comes out ? :(
Be careful with this one. You've got enough to think about already.
most my "mates" will be doing stuff i dont really want to get into so will stay on here and drown my sorro's lol
yes she knows what she likes i supose its just if i can please here :/ lol
ive told her im a virgin and she actually got turn'd on by that.
Dizzychick wrote:
funguy1234 wrote:
oops didnt see ur posts guy sorry
yes i will be safe thanks gunthere
kinkycop i would aswell, she has a fetish but im not sure about it it involves the food that comes out ? :(
Be careful with this one. You've got enough to think about already.
ive always said try everything you can, ill just speak to her about it when we meet x thanks for your help guys and girls
As i said in chat mate, take it easy and dont do anything that your not comfortable with.. I know where your going about food coming out and its not my idea of a erotic encounter but each to their own i guess. 
stamford wrote:
As i said in chat mate, take it easy and dont do anything that your not comfortable with.. I know where your going about food coming out and its not my idea of a erotic encounter but each to their own i guess.
yes i know, but try everything once, they i can say i dont like it etc
Fair do mate, fair do...
Since you are a virgin, you might want to practice rolling on condoms so you will know what to do when the time comes. If you spend time fiddling around trying to put a condom on you might get anxious and lose your erection.
As for going in to the place where digested food comes out... I don't think you want to be doing that - especially seeing as it is going to be your first time.
Salubrious wrote:
Since you are a virgin, you might want to practice rolling on condoms so you will know what to do when the time comes. If you spend time fiddling around trying to put a condom on you might get anxious and lose your erection.
As for going in to the place where digested food comes out... I don't think you want to be doing that - especially seeing as it is going to be your first time.
This. Im not being biased because in itself Scat is a BIG NO NO imo, However, Do you really want your first time ( A once in a lifetime special moment that you cant replace ) to involve being poo'd on or poo'ing on etc your sexual partner???
Just my two quids worth :)
no i said this i just said im open minded
doesnt mean ill be screaming sh*t on me lol
its a no for me, but i think you should try everything thats all
ive put plenty of condoms on lol ;)
If you think nearly 40 is an older women then I guess I'm one :-/ but experience counts ! You'll love it!
Miss tease wrote:
If you think nearly 40 is an older women then I guess I'm one :-/ but experience counts ! You'll love it!
i love older women xx ;)
I have to say some off the things she's into seem a bit extreme for your first time :-/, deffinately not my thing!
I was a 19 year old virgin and she was 41. It may have been no-strings-attached pure fun with no emotions...but it was great. Learned a lot that afternoon. Very nice to be used as a toy lol. 
Can I just say the 40 isn't old
- you lot just managed to make me feel ancient and I am only 42 
xGGx
olderwoman not old, ;)
your not accient i just like olderwoman :) x
My wife is now an older woman at 52, cant say shes much different than when we met 30 yrs ago lol
funguy1234 wrote:
olderwoman not old, ;)
your not accient i just like olderwoman :) x
it's ok my OH is younger than I am so understand the attraction.
xGGx