My body is pretty knackered. Especially with the cancer, I broke my leg in 7 places and my pelvis and got no disks inbetween some of my vertebrae.
Id rather die than never ride a horse lol
Least you are doing things do to keep yourself going, for me its riding
Well of course there's the idea that I'd never break myself for something I'm not *that* bothered about...it'd be different if it were something I were as passionate about as you are about it External Media And the help it will give you mentally - both having regular contact with an animal with which you have a connection *and* doing something you enjoy - will give you a great boost and I'm sure play a big role in how strong you seem to be emotionally.
For me it's also because I know that whilst my "issues" aren't always degenerative, they *can* get worse if you push too hard so it's important to learn to prioritise and pace yourself. Just as I'm sure if you know you can do half as much and prevent the length of time it takes for another bone to heal then you'd take that option since it's a toss up between however long doing half as much a day and one day doing loads and 6 weeks healing time. For me, a day overdoing it can put me in an inactive state for upto 3 weeks - it's a toss up. If it's really worth it, then I'll do it anyway and make sure I'm stocked up on painkillers/have no important plans for the next few weeks but if not I'll look for an alternative/less risky option.
My body is pretty knackered. Especially with the cancer, I broke my leg in 7 places and my pelvis and got no disks inbetween some of my vertebrae.
Id rather die than never ride a horse lol
Least you are doing things do to keep yourself going, for me its riding
Well of course there's the idea that I'd never break myself for something I'm not *that* bothered about...it'd be different if it were something I were as passionate about as you are about it External Media And the help it will give you mentally - both having regular contact with an animal with which you have a connection *and* doing something you enjoy - will give you a great boost and I'm sure play a big role in how strong you seem to be emotionally.
For me it's also because I know that whilst my "issues" aren't always degenerative, they *can* get worse if you push too hard so it's important to learn to prioritise and pace yourself. Just as I'm sure if you know you can do half as much and prevent the length of time it takes for another bone to heal then you'd take that option since it's a toss up between however long doing half as much a day and one day doing loads and 6 weeks healing time. For me, a day overdoing it can put me in an inactive state for upto 3 weeks - it's a toss up. If it's really worth it, then I'll do it anyway and make sure I'm stocked up on painkillers/have no important plans for the next few weeks but if not I'll look for an alternative/less risky option.
I'm sure even your "mess" is stronger than many of us could be - you seem superhuman almost. But of course, everyone has their weak moments. A superhuman who sometimes needs a superhero.
for me its defo all about the grinding lol lean forwards grind the clit lean back to aim at the g spot. Try getting him to bend his knees up when you're facing forward, then you can put your arms back and use them to push on. There are so many ways of being on top. I love the cobra position and also the acrobat where the girl is on top facing the same way as her guy (at the ceiling) but he still does a lot of the work for that one (I dont think you have to be acrobatic to do it)
One of the first girl on top positions I found I could do was essentially getting in the missionary position but obviously with me on top, his legs together mine on the outside. I was basically copying what he did to me. Its great for clit stimulation and for if you feel self concious because he can't really see anything.
The general rule is if its making you feel good and he's no complaining then go for it.
I'm not an on top fan, i do it, because i know he likes it and it does feel good, but sometimes i am too slef conscious, i am very fat and i know its not the sexiest thing to look at, so if i do go on top its not for long...
I've just asked the better half what position she likes, she has no preference, I don't really know what to make of that. lol
As for the lady on top I like it alot, one of my favourites, I also like her trying to hold me down while she is riding me, I sometime's thrust alittle upwards while she is on top for a deeper sensation, she says she likes the feeling.
I quite enjoy having my wifey on top, and its good for her. One thing we do, is have her sit up on me, then I can play with her clit while she grinds on me. We can nearly always get her to cum like this, but I find it difficult to get there, so we generally have to change positions after she cums.
Reverse cowgirl I find very good for me, although she doesn't cum so easily, probably because she's used to cumming with me rubbing her clit while she pumps away, and its not so easy to get to with her acing away. She has got a really good motion in this position though, and it can be a really good orgasm for me.
i don't know if someone has suggested it already because i can't be bothered to read the entire 7 pages! but i also sometimes am not sure what to do on top but some things i would recommend are:
you could try talking to your partner and simply asking him what he likes!
sometimes i like to get into a squatting position on top which enables me to bounce around without too much strain
or you could lift yourself up slightly and let him thrust every now and then so he can show you what speed he wants at the time and it really helps hit the sweet spots inside! mmm incredible!
