I can squirt with my bullet on my clit, or with my glass dildo, but usually it happens when I'm having sex with my OH. Thankfully I'm not a gusher, and my OH loves to feel it happen makes him feel he is doing a good job. Like me screaming the house down with teeth rattling orgasms isn't conformation enough that I'm enjoying myself.
oh and I have squirted a few times while giving head. Before my OH I had not squirted at all.
previously I have not felt as relaxed about sex as I do now and I'm sure this is why I enjoy it so much now.
I've never squirted my self but I am very curious about it. I recently bought a book called Female Ejaculation and the G spot by Deborah Sundahl which is very interesting. I didn't know that women can ejaculate with out an orgasm. She tells you exactly how to do it, you also have to have strong pc muscles to be able to squirt. I'm working on my PCs muslces atm.
I've also read giving your women a long sensual massage to relax her before trying to make her squirt also helps.
I can squirt through penetration, masterbation and toys, I think it just depends on how relaxed I am and how turned on I am. Also you kind of have to push it out.