Have a good and safe date .
Great advice. Never thought of this before xFriday13 wrote:
My friends usually text me a question that only I would know the answer to e.g. Where did we meet? What is my job? (Trick question. "Something to do with computers" is the correct answer :p ). What subject did I study? This ensures the person texting is actually me. If I was in trouble or he was texting from my phone, I could give a wrong answer and she'd know to get the police to my location asap.
lmh95 wrote:
+1 to all this. Good luck :)Fun Louise wrote:
Some great advice here, the only thing I would like to add would be to have a pre written text on your phone, "Please feed the dog for me". Or something like that, a coded message for help! But if he sees you send it he will not think anything.
Im pleased you are thinking this through in a safety way, have you thought about it emotionally? I know you have discussed swinging, but it's worth thinking about. Have fun.
It is a website with user reviews and he does have some and they're good :)
I think I'll use my "get me out of here" message as an incorrect answer to the questions mentioned by Friday13. Mentioned this to my safety friend and she thinks its a great plan. We've know each other forever so "year 6 school trip" is the type of questions coming up! :P
Emotionally most people will know I'm out of a long term relationship fairly freshly. And I know this seems like one of those mad in the moment decisions (and hell it might be) but I just figure I want to be single for a while. No more tying relationships, do what I wanna do when I wanna do it. But I still love sex and intimacy. That's why I plan on having this dude as a FB if this meeting goes well. Not someone who I have to start factoring into my long term life plans or booking holidays with but someone who I can have a laugh and a bang with xx (Let me know if that sounds crazy)
Im a teeny weeny bit jealous of all the fun youre having, Monday sixteenth!
Let us know how it goes x
I think you have a good perspective on it and if where you are at in life a FB makes sense and you both are on the same page enjoy the ride ;)
I think you have a good perspective on it and if where you are at in life a FB makes sense and you both are on the same page enjoy the ride ;)
Pun intended? ;P
I certainly will enjoy the ride! xx
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Meeting on wednesday evening :) Can't wait! xx
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Had an absolutely amazing night/morning! Everything was safe and worked out great. Did the personal questions as a reply thing for safety with a friend. Had so much fun :) Lots of kisses and cuddles too which is nice because it makes everything more intimate xx
MondaySixteenth wrote:
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Had an absolutely amazing night/morning! Everything was safe and worked out great. Did the personal questions as a reply thing for safety with a friend. Had so much fun :) Lots of kisses and cuddles too which is nice because it makes everything more intimate xx
I'm so pleased everything went well for you Hun :) xx
So happy to hear you had a great experience!
Eeeek yay! ..... are you seeing him again?!MondaySixteenth wrote:
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Had an absolutely amazing night/morning! Everything was safe and worked out great. Did the personal questions as a reply thing for safety with a friend. Had so much fun :) Lots of kisses and cuddles too which is nice because it makes everything more intimate xx
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
Eeeek yay! ..... are you seeing him again?!MondaySixteenth wrote:
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Had an absolutely amazing night/morning! Everything was safe and worked out great. Did the personal questions as a reply thing for safety with a friend. Had so much fun :) Lots of kisses and cuddles too which is nice because it makes everything more intimate xx
I am :D We both live with parents so can't see him as much as I'd like but I might go along to a gang bang in about a fortnight and if we can blag a couple spot he can get in for free x :)
Eeeeeeeeeeep! So glad it went well!
Happy for you that it went very well and kept safe .
Unbelievably jealous of you right now!! Have fun!! Keep us posted!MondaySixteenth wrote:
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
Eeeek yay! ..... are you seeing him again?!MondaySixteenth wrote:
Friday13 wrote:
When are you meeting/how did it go?
Had an absolutely amazing night/morning! Everything was safe and worked out great. Did the personal questions as a reply thing for safety with a friend. Had so much fun :) Lots of kisses and cuddles too which is nice because it makes everything more intimate xx
I am :D We both live with parents so can't see him as much as I'd like but I might go along to a gang bang in about a fortnight and if we can blag a couple spot he can get in for free x :)
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
Unbelievably jealous of you right now!! Have fun!! Keep us posted!
All booked up again for a hotel next Saturday! Can't wait :) Loving all the advice on safety, positions, etc I get from forums <3
I'm so pleased to hear it went well MondaySixteenth. :) keeps posted. x
Keep us updated
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
Unbelievably jealous of you right now!! Have fun!! Keep us posted!
Wow, me too.
Glad it went so well. And just to reiterate what everyone else has said really. Enjoy!
