That’s very hot @lexijaden123. Finding that sensitive thing they like and repeating as they ride towards orgasm is going to be a familiar one for a lot of people I think
I like to have my balls cupped, pulled and squeezed gently but firmly gradually adding pressure. Also a finger or two in the bum. she loves to blow on my wet head between strokes and taking me in her mouth.
She enjoys me teasing her nipples whilst sucking on her clit with my hand facing up underneath her bum with my thumb in her booty.
An older technique, but seems to work well: trace the alphabet with your tongue. Then backwards. Then repeat as desired.
Hey all so this is my first post …! And I got a question What’s the best way to give oral sex to my Girlfriend is a different positions that we can use or is there any good techniques that i don’t know about thanks
Tell us how you do it now so we get a better idea what you doing now
Well to be honest just kinda go down on her kissing and teasing from her bellybutton to her in the thigh then work my way slowly to the more sensitive areas
Lot of different thing you can do get her to kneel on the chair you sneaking between her thighs holding her ass or old faithful Pin her legs back and just suck and lick that clit
Use fingers / hands, as well as mouth, lots of lube and a bullet, in all sorts of ways. Remember that the surrounding areas are sensitive too, as well as homing in on the main attraction.
And ask/ tell each other what feels good. Respond positively to things you like!
This works for both of us, and it is foreplay rather than a thing on its own.
Just to add, a mint in the mouth of the partner being generous gives an extra tingle and good lubrication.
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From a givers perspective the full head movement is good for not numbing the tongue as well as firm pressure. Unless some stubble has grown through, then a telling off is imminient
I’ve always been quite preferential to giving head to a guy with a prostate massager in and going intentionally slow to make it so his focus is still on the toy and any twitches or movements from the teasing makes it more intense. And when they do climax from the very slow build they absolutely lose it. What do you even call it? What’s a good name. Let’s call it The Insanity Descent so it sounds like a horror ride, and generally does feel like torture until the end
For my partner the wetter and sloppier the better
Thank you for sharing all your fantastic tips! I’ve added some of them into a poll (in the original OP)
If you feel comfortable - give some of them a go, and then rate them from 1-10
The did a blog with some of them in:
Wow - why have I never seen this before.
Thanks @Peitho for the link.
I feeling like I need a woman right now to test some of these techniques
Me and hubby decided to test these not long ago for me to vote, doing each technique on each other for about a minute then rating them. It was a very fun warm up for an evening, and made trying new things very light hearted recommend using these as a foreplay guide
Me too! I only just came across it this morning!!
Starts taking notes
How did I miss this thread?! There is GOLD here. Sexy gold.
I usually perform a combination of movements when I give my partner head. I start with gentle licking, sucking each testicle, then move on to suck and swirl the head, tonguing frenulum and the urethra slit. Then I deep throat. Then I switch to stroking his penis down with my hand while suck upward on the whole shaft, and vice-versa. Doing that last action with a good rhythm brings him to climax. I swallow and gently lick and keep him in my mouth, not moving, while he recovers.
I used to do a combo of ice cubes in the mouth after I put the barest smudge of Tiger Balm on the head of his penis. I called it “Fire and Ice”.
These days, as a treat I give him “Champagne BJ’s”. I use a small ice-cold bottle of a good Champagne (adds an exotic element); I take a mouthful of the champagne and slide my mouth over his penis and suck and drink. He says it feels fantastic: a combination of tingle from the bubbles, the icy coldness and my hot mouth. Makes me feel good, too, lol!
@Blonde_Bunny
I will have to try your hand technique out next time I get oral from my partner!