I prefer to give bj and my husband absolutely explodes. My husband loves to give but I don’t really love it but Since joining here I’ve realised that my confidence prob hasn’t been great over the years as I don’t feel good enough in how I preform and feel in my body since having kids. So I’m interested to see that many of ye love to give ur wives etc oral…. Hmmmmm changes my lens a bit
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I love a blow job and going down on her to
Not actually the biggest fan…of giving or receiving. Will receive every now and again (super rare) and give sometimes. Hubby knows I don’t really enjoy it so let’s me do it whenever I’m in the mood, but doesn’t pressure or even ask otherwise.
I Extremelt LOVE To Give 
. I LOVE To Receive Or Usually Switch To SIMULTANEOUSLY 
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We both love oral but there are restrictions.
Mrs Balls will suck me , lick my balls and perimium, even a little rimming but will not let me cum in her mouth. As for Mrs Balls receiving, she absolutely loves tongue attention, Deep rimming, tongue in pussy and clit licking. The only drawback is that she gets very sensitive, very quickly, so if I want to savour her juices for any lengthof time I have to have the touch and tongue of a butterfly. The upside is Mrs Balls Screaming “stick it in me and bang your balls on my arse” needless to say that it takes us over the edge very quickly.
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I find flavoured lube really helps me when it comes to giving hubby bj. His precum is really salty and the lube enables me to concentrate on giving him pleasure rather than gagging on the salty taste. It still is not enough though to allow him to cum in my mouth as his cum is a whole different thing. He is currently drinking a small glass of pineapple juice every day to see if it has any effect.
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He just needs to drink a lot if water, that would help a lot already. The juice as an addition, and more of other fruits as well..
He does drink a lot of water already. Only has two coffees per day rarely drinks alcohol and doesnt smoke. Its the medication he takes for his diabetes that effects the taste.
Ah yes… I forgot about that.. you told me once… hmm… I’ll try to see what I can found..
Definitely both!!! PIV can be uncomfortable for my wife however she always cums from me going down on her. I haven’t always offered since she has been very vanilla (anything she does has been great!) in the past however, she has gotten much more adventurous lately. We were talking the other day and she said she really enjoys me going down on her and we chatted about some other things, looks like there will be a lot more of me giving!!! She is very skilled giving me oral, very happy she is getting more adventurous!!!
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Both I love giving mrs oral as we both know shes guaranteed multiple orgasms and she gives the most amazing blowjobs
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% both, I love a 69..
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I voted gjve…i obviously love receiving too.
But if forced in to a choice , i just love having my tongue delve into my wifes kitty.
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I voted both give and receive. I truly love getting a blowjob, though rarely orgasm from it. But, I LOVE eating her pussy. Even at times when she struggles to orgasm from other methods, like yesterday , having me go down on her always makes her cum. You would think since she knows her own body, that playing with her clit and breasts would get her off, some how my tongue on her clit and finger inside her sends her to ecstasy. ILOVE it.
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I voted to give and receive- I get so turned on giving hubby a sloppy bj and twirling my tongue on his tip- drives him wild. But there’s nothing better than him devouring my pussy with his tongue flicking my clit. Planning on using a pussy pump too so no doubt he will love going down on my swollen pussy lips.
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Well I love being sucked (best i ever receieved was by another guy) but i also enjoy going down on my gf.
But even more fun when we 69 and shes on top and i have the choice of pussy or her arse, and then she uses my buttplug in me as she sucks me.
She took our first buttplug once but struggled so sometimes i just slip a finger in.
Just realised its been a while doing all this so better change that 
My OH has a move she uses when she sucks me, running her tongue around my glans while im in her mouth. It drives me crazy, and, actually, I don’t know how she manages it because I fill her mouth pretty well. I’d love to be able to orgasm from oral alone. It has been a long time since it happened for me. She ALWAYS orgasms when I go down on her.
Always to give, there is nothing more exquisite than the taste and smell of the OH’s pussy as I bring her to orgasm with my tongue.
Always save the light sucking on her clitoris until the end, to make sure she has a powerful orgasm.
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Sounds amazing 
First choice is always to give - would do this for my queen all day long if we could! 
This can be just for her, or as foreplay, or taking a break and mixing it up during PIV.
Only slight downside is that occasionally she won’t kiss afterwards, but I think she is getting more into it - I never force her to, of course, I’ll be led by her when we are face to face afterwards.
And receiving is something that took me a while to enjoy after never having any for years. I always felt bad having something done just for me (not realising that the giver might also get a lot of pleasure doing it), so would always try to reciprocate when it wasn’t actually required.
I’ve gotten much better at this! 
And my favourite is for it to happen at the same time, and more than once we’ve found it so hot it was easy for us to finish together (obviously makes it even more phenomenal!). 