I have always been very bi-curious. I have been in a string of heterosexual relationships and never really experimented sexually so the idea of kissing another guy and fooling around with him (maybe even sex) has become a huge turn on for me. I've even taken to cumming in my own mouth when I'm masturbating to see what the feeling is like but would love to try the real thing and suck off another guy. The trouble with that is I am in a committed relationship at the moment, I could never cheat on my OH and know that she would not like this idea. Some fantasies just have to remain as such...
As a married wife with bi husband I have heard his pervious conquests which I find quite interesting and sexy. Funny thing is he has had more men than me haha. I would love to share a BJ with him im very open have had 2 ffm threesomes with ex and friends but they ended up in tears as were drunken fuelled.
My husband is openly into his transexual porn as well. But then fantasy is as it is. Ive told im very open if he wanted to ever dabble again, id more than likely watch :)
I wouldn't mind if my partner had a fantasy to do this, as I've fantasised about women. But there's no way I'd let him do it.
For me it's not even the fact that it's a man, the problem would be that he was being intimate with another person when we both promised to be faithful to each other. I know some people enjoy swinging and that's totally fine, but in my relationship that just wouldn't work and we'd both feel like we were cheating.
Idk, it's good to be open minded and all, but just because someone has a fantasy doesn't mean they should always be able live it out, fantasies should only come to life if both partners are happy and comfortable with it. Some people don't view same sex stuff as being unfaithful, but that baffles me as I personally don't see a difference between heterosexual or same sex acts.
It's good that other people seem so relaxed about it though :) your partners will thank you one day if they ever fantasise about blow jobs ha!