S&M sexy times wrote:
Maybe you could watch a few films or tv shows with the charcters in & find out which one your wife likes the most, have you thought about pvc dress up with your wife playing the dominant one or vice versa, not very orginal of me I know, but you may have fun.
That sounds like a fun idea! My wife doesn't usually admit to fancying characters in films or on TV (I think she feels that it would be disloyal of her -- the sweetie!), but this seems like a good way to enter that arena, given that the idea is for her to identify the types of characters and outfits that she'd like me to copy for her.
We haven't done anything with PVC at all. I'm up for the idea, but I think I'll hold it back for the "advanced" category.
A man in a suit is sexy.. A mysterious or lost identity.
Well... if one thing's for sure, it's that I'm going to pursue the suit-wearing idea for all that it's worth. I mean, my wife even told me herself that she likes it!
First thing that entered my head was fireman but dont think the OH would be up for it.
think it is the mix of uniform and being rescued
Unfortunately, I don't have the upper body development to portray myself convincingly as any sort of fireman.
rose hip wrote:
Silk boxers, but more for the feel than the visuals. Visually, nothing's better than a naked man. :-)
Speaking of which, has your OH tried lingerie which emphasizes fabric and the tactile elements? I'm always self-conscious in lace and stiff garments, but like the feeling of being caressed through silk. Might something like that appeal to your OH?
I considered some silk boxers the other day. Hmm...
Interesting idea re. lingerie. My wife tends to select lingerie based on practicality (if it's for casual wear) or visual appearance (if it's to impress me). I don't think the tactile element enters her mind at the moment. Perhaps I can encourage her to think about it in a more sensual way.
S&M sexy times wrote:
I would like to say also cuddle hubby, your new profile picture is really good, you have a good physique & the photo is brillant in black & white.
Thanks very much! I really appreciate hearing that it's "okay" or any better, given the body image issues that I had in the past.