Just got a couple of questions about the elusive P-Spot.
Mainly Im just curious how you all know exactly if you found it? And what exactly it feels like?
Havent exactly explored with my fingers, so still figuring the feelings out
And when it comes to inserting various toys of different length/width. Whats the best position to be in to ease sliding a toy/massager inside?
I actually have the above postage massager and would say if you’re completely new to anal play it could be a little big for you and would advise going for something a little slimmer.
Personally I find it a little too big for the intended purpose and the smaller end which rests against your perineum applies to much pressure in most positions which I find uncomfortable. I haven’t had any ‘p-spot success’ with this yet, it feels more like a butt plug that’s not so comfortable to wear.
If you’re a complete beginner to anal play it may be wise to start with a simple butt plug but it depends what your wanting to achieve.
I hope to one day experience the P-spot orgasm but I think it’s definitely something that needs to be worked towards and requires a different approach to traditional male orgasm.
If you do a search above for prostrate orgasm - myself and other members have contributed a few hints and tips and best toys to try and use. Enjoy and good luck.
Lol the bigger end is what goes in while the shorter end stimulates on the lower penis shaft.
Amazingly to hit your P-spot you don’t necessarily need a large toy as anything that’s a fingers length is long enough to massage it and once you’ve got there the feeling is kinda like a warming blissful indulgent sensation I think
Yeah I would really like to try some different ones out as I do love the feeling it gives, I just find the part that rests on your perineum uncomfortable in some positions.
For me the size and girth wasn’t an issue to insert after a little lube and warm up but it could definitely be intimidating for some. If I’m reading your posts right it looks like you’ve made the purchase, how’re you finding it so far?
Might take a few times to experiment with it and trying to engage with the senses but if still no joy then it maybe recommend the We-vibe bullet lipstick vibrator as that’s another of my faves
Yes indeed that’s the one it may look small but it packs a powerful buzz and I’ve found it feels really good up there. Would suggest putting it in a rubber glove at first just to avoid any oops moments but I oddly have found it usually don’t slide in any further than the plastic bit
Yes say external but I discovered it felt better inside lol
Technically it’s the right length to hit the prostate so could work a treat for you but we’re all different so would have to try it out and see.
For me it felt amazing like it tingled all the senses and gave me that funny ooo feeling a few times which I gather is the prostate. My best position for it is kneeling with a cushion under between my legs to kinda rock on and just put the toy up and on lol
I find it easier to insert toys while standing with one foot on the toilet or bed, knee bent. My room has an en-suite bathroom so it’s easy to do in the bathroom, that way the loo is close by if the initial insertion prompts a bowel movement.