Does the P spot really exist, I’ve tried using a vibrator a few times but not getting any of the feeling that some people have mentioned.
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The prostate definitely exists, so I think the “spot” also exists. I am on a quest in 2026 to try and give myself a P spot orgasm. So far I have stimulated it to pleasurable effect but have not achieved an orgasm by stimulation alone.
There are lots of knowledgeable people on here and plenty of threads so I am sure that you will get lots of responses. @UKlovingcouple is something of a p spot guru!
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Well the “P” stands for prostate so it definitely exists. Obviously everyone is different and there will be people that it isn’t amazing for but generally you need to train your body to orgasm in a new way, and that takes times.
You could also not be quite in the right place for you. It is a good few inches up so is the vibrator long enough?
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It certainly exists - if you fancy reading more, I definitely suggest Prostate “Super Orgasm” 
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It does but takes time to hone into it and understand that it affects every man differently.
There was a blogpost I saw many moons ago about it and the writer who was some sex guru guy expert explained how a male prostate orgasm is like a feel good sensation that warms and rushes you in the moment like the feeling of bliss and for some men it may make them precum more, others who share extra sensitivity can cum from it… but half the time what you see in porn is the man overly acting for the cameras 
There are even cases where some guys are completely not sensitive and feel nothing! Which adds to the idea that some men are made for anal play while others aren’t…
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Definitely exists
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It definitely exists its finding the right toy to reach it. I have helped my husband with his several times.
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The pspot does exist however it can be a journey in finding pleasure from it. It took me a lot of experimenting with different toys and time for me to really start feeling consistent pleasure when anally masturbating. Ive had aneros toys, butt plugs, prostate massagers etc over the last several years. I finally discovered that I get the most pleasure from firm stimulation using dildos or the njoy wand.
I find getting aroused before hand helps as the prostate will swell and become more receptive to stimulation. I’ve managed to have multiple pspot orgasms in a session however it takes a while and I find my best success is when being bum fucked first by my fuck machine to get worked up and then switching to my njoy wand for direct stimulation.
Doing this, Ive had multiple rolling pspot orgasms which feel incredible. Keep exploring and someday you’ll discover the magic of anal pleasure.
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Good advice @Cumalot82 thanks
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I got the njoy for my wife for squirting but she didnt like it, so then I used it and at one point I thought I would get addicted to it. With it I can find the pspot handy once you are turned on. It is very intense and the best orgasm you will have.
Then one day it just done nothing for me. I think overuse. I did read people saying leaving time between makes it better. So its been months since I used it, might try it again tonight.
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I think this is a common phenomena. Ive experienced similar with njoy. Early on experiences with the njoy wand were definitely mixed. Some sessions were orgasmic bliss, others were big disappointments where stimulation felt minimal or not good at all.
Over time pleasurable experiences outweight the bad.
Not sure why this is however I’m sure mental state at the time plays an influence as well as level of arousal. I also have read many times that rewiring of the brain to associate anal/pspot play as pleasurable through trial and experimentation may play a role
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Yes it does exist. You need to use a prostate specific toy or a curved dildo to hit the right spot in my experience. The sensation is quite different and unexpected in a good way.
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