It's become so annoying for me, I can insert it and wear it comfortably, but as soon as my OH is in me in pops out!
We've had anal recently, and my OH's girth is bigger than the plug, so I don't know if I've been stretched too much to keep the plug in and I need a bigger one? Or is he just pushing it out of me? Another thing I think I might be doing is bearing down, I tend to bear down when having sex, I never realIsed until the plug was in and it kept popping out.
When we do it doggy, it's fine because he holds it in, but it's annoying not being able to do other positions.
I had this problem. It's probably too small! And it's quite a slimline kinda shape. I couldn't do anything to keep mine in (this was my first butt plug), had to go bigger xx
i can still keep it in myself but not having sex, I think it's coz you open up etc when you have sex unless your in missionary with ya legs closed! xx
It looks very much like the plug you are using at the moment does not have a big enough taper for it to withstand the additional pressure added when your partner penetrates.
You simple need to go for either a plug with a larger taper, the more bulbous, rounded ones where the neck (The part your anus surrounds) is much thinner than the above portion, or alternatively, if this is just too much for you, you can try a tapered plug. These with a curved shaft, as these will curl up inside you and grip better.
The top one that KF linked stays in place quite well during DP, but it is smaller/thinner than the one you have and you may feel like it is barely there. It should stay though (It did for me)
Here is one with a big difference in the neck/shaft sizes, which helps hold them in as your bum can close tighter around a slimmer neck and hold in the portion above it:
I don't know what those two are like though. Just examples of what I mean. It may also help to go a little bigger now, as that can be the cause, but remember, your gunna feel it when he is inside you too, and if you go too big, it is too much and you cant squeeze him in! lol xx
I really like the look of the Doc Johnson Mood plugs, so I might give that a go. Looks like the base would be more comfortable, and as you say it's more tapered.
Do any of you happen to use any slimline toys with your OH when having anal sex? I wanted glass, but the glass toys I have hurt when I'm having anal sex, they rub on my pubic bone. Any suggestions? Xx
I really like the look of the Doc Johnson Mood plugs, so I might give that a go. Looks like the base would be more comfortable, and as you say it's more tapered.
Do any of you happen to use any slimline toys with your OH when having anal sex? I wanted glass, but the glass toys I have hurt when I'm having anal sex, they rub on my pubic bone. Any suggestions? Xx
I avoid rigid materials for DP for this exact reason. They have no bend, flex or squish to them and so as he moves in and out, the rigid toy clatters against internal parts and does not feel good.
Do you mean DP where he is in your bum and the toy inside your vagina? If so, you want to find a slimline silicone dildo with a small base so it does not get in the way, yet had enough flex and squish to conform more with your body and his movements.
If you mean DP with him inside your vagina and a toy in your bum, I would either recommend the above already mentioned plugs, or for something more dildo like, that you or he can thrust with, you could try something like this, as it has an anal safe base:
This one would be suitable for vaginal too, but needs thorough cleaning between swaps. It can be sterilised though, being pure silicone. It also comes in three sizes. The only issue I can see is the base getting in the way when used vaginally as he enters anally. They have a decent flex though and can comfortably be bent a little (I own two of these)
Avoid rigid toys like plastic, glass, metal, ceramic and wood. Silicone is what you need here.
Yeah, I mean DP with a toy in the front! I've been looking at some slimline toys but can't make my mind up on something.
I suppose when you think about it, glass isn't really that clever since it's so hard! I just didn't think it would make that much of a difference to the tightness of my front end!
Going to have another good look now and see if I can settle. Really temped to go for a rechargeable slimline vibe. I think I'm converted to rechargeable since getting the We-Vibe tango!!