I really like the look of the Doc Johnson Mood plugs, so I might give that a go. Looks like the base would be more comfortable, and as you say it's more tapered.
Do any of you happen to use any slimline toys with your OH when having anal sex? I wanted glass, but the glass toys I have hurt when I'm having anal sex, they rub on my pubic bone. Any suggestions? Xx
I avoid rigid materials for DP for this exact reason. They have no bend, flex or squish to them and so as he moves in and out, the rigid toy clatters against internal parts and does not feel good.
Do you mean DP where he is in your bum and the toy inside your vagina? If so, you want to find a slimline silicone dildo with a small base so it does not get in the way, yet had enough flex and squish to conform more with your body and his movements.
If you mean DP with him inside your vagina and a toy in your bum, I would either recommend the above already mentioned plugs, or for something more dildo like, that you or he can thrust with, you could try something like this, as it has an anal safe base:
This one would be suitable for vaginal too, but needs thorough cleaning between swaps. It can be sterilised though, being pure silicone. It also comes in three sizes. The only issue I can see is the base getting in the way when used vaginally as he enters anally. They have a decent flex though and can comfortably be bent a little (I own two of these)
Avoid rigid toys like plastic, glass, metal, ceramic and wood. Silicone is what you need here.