Pegging?

Me and my boyfriend have talked about all things sex since we've been together. We are always very honest with each other and know a lot about each that way.

We went though lists of sex activities and pegging was on it. He said he wouldn't mind trying it once and I wouldn't mind trying it either. I brought it up again more recently and he straight out said he wasn't sure and probably wouldn't do it at all.

Now I would never ever make him do something he didn't want to do. That's very important and I've told him that numerous times. But I have a feeling he does want to try it but he feels insecure about being dominated by a woman that way.

I just wanted to ask for advice on reassuring him about doing it. How should I go about talking to him about it without seeming pushy?

All advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks! :)

Welcome to the forums. There are lots of previous discussions about this as it is a very common situation. Try the search box on the forum page. Initially I thought it would search the Lovehoney site but it just searches the forums.

Good luck!

Not sure if this helps, but I am the dominant in our relationship (I am male) and I don't find it submissive to be pegged because I am the one directing how it goes and when it happens.

Good luck, I'm sure he will love it.

Thanks everyone, I'm going to look more on the other threads about this topic for more information and I'm going to talk to him about it again :)

Been building up to this for a while now, I transfered the OH some extra cash today and told her to go buy what's needed. Spur of the moment but tonight is the night! Kids into bed, then shower time, then play time. Tonight I will be pegged for the first time, we have played with beads and smaller toys and plugs. I am excited, emotional and nervous all at the same time. I can't wait!!!