Hey there everyone!
I have a 2-part question for you all.
When in a relationship / having sex with a regular partner, do you usually:
- plan sex (eg: "tonight, let's watch a movie, have dinner and then do the mattress mambo")?
- have spontaneous sex (eg: one of you makes a move/subtle-to-not-so-subtle leg touching/groping/THE look)?
Which do you prefer?
Does planning/mentioning it earlier in the day get you excited or kind of spoil it for you?