I guess what's most important is whether or not you feel comfortable and confident, otherwise you probably won't 'feel it' and not be in the mood
Maybe I'm a bit naughty ShannonMarlene as hubby bought a posing pouch once and I just laughed at him in it. I know he'll try make me feel sexy in it so hopefully I do too and it hides some of my bumps by showing off the nicer bumps. ;)