Here's a question.
When you watch porn, what are you actually concentrating on? Mr.N concentrates on the women's bare feet (big foot fetish), their facial expressions, and the general tableau itself. The actual close ups of the old in out in out are quite frankly boring.
Mrs.N comments on the chintz curtains, cellulite and the stupid put on noises, but Mr.N suspects that inside she is a cauldron of pulsating lust whilst viewing such animal outpourings of sweat, tongues and floppy bits!!
Well there are lots of styles of porn, we all have our own tastes but for us we use porn as background to our lovemaking/fucking etc it makes for a great atmosphere some have music we have porn .
WRT your question, what we concentrate on I think, is each other with the porn as a background .But other than that for us its the sounds and the close ups of their bits dong it .Although they need to be attractive people we dont want to be with them they just help set a sexy atmosphere.
Good question though.
It's been a very long time since we've owned any porn (managed to lose it when moving house a couple of years ago), but we used it just like you expert, as something that turned us on a bit, which meant we jumped on each other and used it to make the sex between us a bit kinkier - close ups and the noises were definately the high lights for us as we were playing with each other or having sex.
I've never seen a porn movie. I've heard it's all bad acting, flowery wall-paper, fake tits and blokes with droopy moustaches coming out with statements like "I've come to service you". Have things changed from the 1970's?
I think porn has changed very much since the 1970s the quality for one some are big budget with very beautiful actors shot on location etc while others cater for every taste under the sun if theres a kink then there is a porno for it everyone should be able to find one to suit their tastes .
But then again there is a charm to some of those 1970s pornos.
WRT the actors/porn stars we often are amazed st how goood looking some of them are and wonder why they appear in porn when they could work in the mainstream well I suppose the answer to that one is that they like what they do and are paid very well .Oh yes things have changed in the porn industry since the 1970s .
We love watching porn. We don't really concentrate on anything in particular it just turns us on the whole scene and what they are doing etc. Gotta say I love seeing pussy and ass though!
I particularly like receiving a blow job whilst the lesbo scenes are on
@ Truly - never seen a porn movie? Don't believe you!
I concentrate hard (heh) on most things, but there's nothing worse than the director cutting to a bloke's richtus face just when you're about to pop your jizz clogs.
That has me reaching for the remote faster than you can say "Pass the towel"
I like porn but it all tends to be online stuff now. I suppose I mainly concentrate on the action and man's cock, but that's because it's short clips I watch on the likes of redtube and xtube. If it's a DVD I suppose I get more into what little plot there is! I relaly really want to see Pirates.
I love watching the build up to orgasm, particularly female orgasm, also the way a womans body moves during sex - particularly when the woman's on top, love the way her breasts, bottom and hair move (particularly if the hair is long!). I particularly like 'real' stuff - amateurs, or pros with no story line. My wife sometimes likes sex films with really cheesy storylines where the 'actors' aren't taking things too seriously - no idea why she likes this! I like the result though ...
Two things I like which my wife isn't so keen on (although we've watched together) are jilling movies (female masturbation) - particularly the beautifully shot ones from I Feel Myself, and also my wife isn't keen if a movie features a pregnant woman, whereas this is a big plus for me (don't know why, but always find pregnant women sexy!). Oh, and my wife like the result ...
We sometimes watch hogtieds bondage movies, some of which are very female-orgasm-oriented (and the producers for a short while also produced a great series of movies of real couples, which we still dip into).
Mr & Mrs Naughty wrote:
Here's a question.
When you watch porn, what are you actually concentrating on? Mr.N concentrates on the women's bare feet (big foot fetish), their facial expressions, and the general tableau itself. The actual close ups of the old in out in out are quite frankly boring.
Mrs.N comments on the chintz curtains, cellulite and the stupid put on noises, but Mr.N suspects that inside she is a cauldron of pulsating lust whilst viewing such animal outpourings of sweat, tongues and floppy bits!!
I hate feet. What does Mr N like about them, does he suck your toes? sorry, not trying to intrude but what does he get out of feet? I know it's each to their own but I just don't get the feet thing.
Truly Scrumptious wrote:
Mr & Mrs Naughty wrote:
Here's a question.
When you watch porn, what are you actually concentrating on? Mr.N concentrates on the women's bare feet (big foot fetish), their facial expressions, and the general tableau itself. The actual close ups of the old in out in out are quite frankly boring.
Mrs.N comments on the chintz curtains, cellulite and the stupid put on noises, but Mr.N suspects that inside she is a cauldron of pulsating lust whilst viewing such animal outpourings of sweat, tongues and floppy bits!!I hate feet. What does Mr N like about them, does he suck your toes? sorry, not trying to intrude but what does he get out of feet? I know it's each to their own but I just don't get the feet thing.
I am so with you on this one. I consider myself totally open-minded when it comes to sex, but I really hate feet. If I started going out with a guy and I discovered he had a foot fetish, that would be a deal-breaker for me.
Bondage? Oh, go on then. Dressing up? Whatever you like. Watersports? Not my thing, but I'll play along. Feet? Don't let the door hit you on the arse on the way out.
Not trying to be rude, by the way... feet really just give me the willies. Totally repsect the fact that people are turned on by whatever turns them on - can't control it, can't change it.
Mrs K has been watching a few porn clips and films recently but has yet to find something she really likes.
A friend of hers said she enjoyed it and recommended an Anna Span film but Mrs K just didn't dig it. I have supplied a varying range of clips from soft core moving upwards ( even trying to find good looking hunks for her ) but I think I'm looking for the porn Holy Grail.
Any film suggestions are most welcome.
The trouble is, everything is very personal. For instance, my wife likes certain old (for porn) films e.g. 'Hot Rackets', and 'The Wizzard of Ahhs' but also sometimes likes watching some stuff that is stronger than we'd ever do. Whether she wants a plot line varies - used to more so, but she's started to like more films where the sex doesn't stop. One thing though, soft core has always bored her rigid.
You do say you're supplying 'a range of clips' - but maybe they're too short for her to get into anything, certainly my wife generally doesn't like clips that are incomplete.
Have you talked with Mrs K about what she would like to see in a film - is she looking for plot, for attractive men, for really silly plots that make her laugh, for real couples, wall-to-wall sex, kinky stuff, nasty sex that she wouldn't do herself? She might be turned on or off by trios, group sex, male-male or female-female action. Everything's a bit too personal for giving recommendations without an idea of what she's looking for, although there's always the possibility she doesn't know herself - my wife always THOUGHT she wanted a plot line, but she's definitely drifted away from that over time.
Well I have to say my eyes are first drawn to the bits (boobs bums and poontang) but after that the real turn on/off is wether the girl is really enjoying it. If shes not happy then its not good
How the heck do you tell if shes happy? they all seem to be screaming like they're enjoying it, but I find that a major turn off as we just don't do that. I mean, I'm VERY vocal, but theres no constant litany of 'ohgodyessmoremoremoreharderharderfasteroooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhyou'resogood-mmmmmmmmmmmmmooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhharrrrrrrgggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh-hhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!'
I concentrate on the crapness, I must admit. I criticise the acting, and laugh at the fakeness. It's what I enjoy about porn. Me and the bloke don't use it to get turned on, we use it to have a laugh. Which leads to the 'we can do better' feeling which leads to sex :)
@ crayola. Mr.Naughty says: If I gave you my phone number would you do the ohgodyessmore... thing into his answerphone? It looks mightily impressive in print!! LOL!
I don't watch it becaus I get so annoyed, maybe I'm watching the wrong porn coz no one seems to be having 'real' sex, its all clearly set up to get the best angles rather than the best feeling.
Then I start criticising the 'acting' and in the most recent one I saw that was leant to me by a mate who was convinced I'd love it, there were tan lines on the women, which annoys me... I mean, theres a camera pretty much shoved up their pussy and yet they still tan in a bikini?! ARGH!!!! That and she had no less than 5 HUGE gnat bites, on her arse and other areas!
My partner on the other hand loves it even when Im complaining she can still get really turned on.... hell, I don't care, the results are good... even when I have to stop halfway thru to turn the damn film off because all the ridiculous ooohaaaaahyesssss..... (see Crayolas perfect moan) is making me laugh hysterically.
On saying all that, I dont mind real porn by real couples... a la youporn or places like that.
I love porn me and hubby like watching it together, i like the more natural porn rather then the ones where they pull silly faces and pose for the camera,
Mr & Mrs Naughty wrote:
@ crayola. Mr.Naughty says: If I gave you my phone number would you do the ohgodyessmore... thing into his answerphone? It looks mightily impressive in print!! LOL!
Hey crayola - I totally want you to do me a ringtone for my mobile! External Media External Media External Media
I do that 'oh god, yes, ohhhhh, more, harder, HARDER, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, FUCK ME!' thing I have to admit and I assure you, I am totally enjoying it ;)
Although, I really get off when he is in charge and puts his hand over my mouth and makes me behave myself too.