Gadget wrote:
The best films in my opinion are those where you don't get to see everything. Those where you get involved in the emotion and connection as well as the physicality. I ha e seen a fair amount of different styles but I still think some of the best scenes are in non adult movies. Moll flanders for example is far better than a lot of tbd vacant fAced l
Porn of a similar vein
So..softcore?
I dont really like porn myself. Its faked and staged. And sex should not be faked or staged.
Also i think its exposure of the intimacy between partners, Yes i know they are only actors but i certainly wouldnt like thousands of men women watching me being penetrated by a 10 inch length.
Thats my view anyways. Mabye lots of people think differently about it. But whatever.
x
Lady Light wrote:
I dont really like porn myself. Its faked and staged. And sex should not be faked or staged.
Also i think its exposure of the intimacy between partners, Yes i know they are only actors but i certainly wouldnt like thousands of men women watching me being penetrated by a 10 inch length.
Thats my view anyways. Mabye lots of people think differently about it. But whatever.
x
Well, there's amateur porn.
Yeah amateur porn's great if you want to see a real connection between people. I agree, I hate the fakeness of porn. As well as amateur stuff there's Petra Joy and I was really impressed by the DVD I have. It's only an 18 cert my version, but she does R18 as well. She uses real couples and you can TOTALLY tell the difference. There's a great scene where you can see the couple totally forgetting about the camera.
I've always found Anna Span's DVDs to be much less about posing than a lot of stuff I've seen. Her style isn't nearly as fake-looking, though obviously it's still not as real as the amateur stuff. You really have to get the R18 versions though otherwise you don't see very much at all and if you're like me you end up feeling a little cheated.
I have seen a lot of porn in my short life and none of it was quite as bad as Anna Spans! It's just so clinical and unsexy. Which is ironic since, from what I gather, the main point of her films is to make more women like porn. Yet most seem to be turned off by it.
Kinkyboyuk: I can see your point, but I haven't seen tonnes of porn and from what I've seen Anna Span's is what appeals most to me. I'm not into anal (which I've had to watch far too much of in other DVDs) and I hate it when the stars pout into the camera like morons, so her stuff is just a little more appealing to me. However, if someone suggested something more sexy that didn't involve either of the above, I'd be happy to investigate
What sort of stuff do you want to see? I'm guessing penetration at least...
It really is hard to avoid anal in porn! Thankfully I don't mind it, but I know what you mean angelarwen. I have to say I was really impressed by Petra Joy's and plan to get some of her R18 stuff.
kinkyboyuk: Penetration and/or girl on girl is fine, as are masturbastion and oral. I'm happy to watch a little light BDSM but not into the heavier stuff. Toys are also good. I'm not a huge fan of cumshots but I can live with those if the rest is good. Absolutely NO golden showers whatsoever! Any suggestions?
imelda: Thanks, I think I'll have a look at some Petra Joy stuff and see if it appeals
Personally, I have to contradict some of what has been said in terms of personal taste... I love watching m-f, f-f (and on occassion) m-m porn. Oral is good - I don't care who is giving or receiving.. sometimes I want to watch a girl getting licked, sometimes a guy being sucked... And it varies as to who i want to see doing that too!
I like anal, and cumshots. I don't know if thats a blokey trait.
The one thing I do detest more than anything in most porn though, is fakeness. This, to me, comes in two forms... Fake looking people - i.e. if they look plastic (thats men or women, btw) and also in looking at or being too aware of the camera. I hate that 'looking back at the camera every 2 secs' thing that happens in so much porn.
Totally agree with you on the fakeness thing LivingFire. It's so off-putting, especially the 'performance' aspect. I don't think you want to feel like you're watching two (or however many!) people having sex for the camera. Instead there's a voyeuristic quality to it, like you don't want them to know you're watching. Some porn can carry this off, but not much in my experience.
As for your tastes, I don't think liking anal and cumshots is a blokey trait at all. It's not something I'm fond of, but I know there are many women who do enjoy it. Each to their own, I say. As long as it's not something that everyone would agree is totally wrong, people should be able to watch and enjoy what they like.
Damn I LOVE M-M or M-M-F porn yum! Petra Joy had a spoof conventional porno add-on bit on her DVD and it's HYSTERICAL! It's so apt. Really demonstrated the difference.
The biggest turn off is guys that are too old or ugly having sex with girls half their age, makes me feel disgusted not turned on.
the most enjoyable porn is when there is some sort of connection between the people, not to the extent of being lovey dovey, but so it does not just come across as if theyre just being paid to fuck.
Well im glad i came across this thread as i never knew there was such a thing as porn for women!! And i have to agree i like porn with a bit of "meaning" and not just straight to the point get in get out (excuse the choice of words) type where its a complete turn off and nothing else!
Ran into another big turnoff today - blowjobs that include any form of gagging. I'm into BDSM so a lot of what I watch is male-dom including blowjobs where the man is in control, but I hate the throat-fucking thing, don't like the look of it and HATE the sound of it.
Now a girl who enthusiastically and without gagging takes him in deep, that's something else..
Darth wrote:
Ran into another big turnoff today - blowjobs that include any form of gagging. I'm into BDSM so a lot of what I watch is male-dom including blowjobs where the man is in control, but I hate the throat-fucking thing, don't like the look of it and HATE the sound of it.
Now a girl who enthusiastically and without gagging takes him in deep, that's something else..
There aren't many sounds more off-putting than that one in my opinion, lol. Russell Brand does a joke about it I think.
It's the spitting in blow job scenes that totally grosses me out yeuch!
Oh god, I'd totally forgotten about the spitting Imelda! Yes, there are a couple of 'stories' in my Anna Span DVDs where they keep spitting everywhere and I HATE spitting so it try to pay less attention at those parts, lol.
PrincessSarah wrote:
Hi all,
I desperately need girls! I am currently researching what women think about pornography for women (yes this does exist!)
Ladies- what appeals to you? [...] Most of my work so far has flagged up that women do not like cum shots in porn- is this just the academic feminists I have been reading or do we all feel like this
PrincessSarah wrote:
Sorry for disappearing off the face of the planet, I have been staying with a friend for a few days, turned into quite a session!
I am a student at Stirling uni doing my 4thyear dissertation in film and media [...] a genre study into pornography for women [...] I pinky promise to not disappear again on you guys!
Since she wrote her last message on 19 March and hasn't posted here since, I guess she wasn't that desperate. I wonder what happened to her her pinky promises, and/or her dissertation? Anybody heard from her?