Hi looks abit painfull thst clamp however cant see how it woukd work
How would I look at at that ?
Having seen the image you shared, I feel like that is designed to play a more bondage/pain role than helpful with loosening. Others whoâve had trouble with tightness can speak more to their own experiences, but spending more time practicing with dilators/dildos or incorporating more foreplay and lube could be more helpful.
And as a man, while I could definitely see using something like this when domming, it doesnât look like it would be particularly comfortable for her (which would be the point if we were in a BDSM scene) or for me as penetrating partner (maybe beside the point in a scene). Just my two cents!
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Perhaps i misunderstood what was required?
Thank you for your thoughts
@Quiet_ones_are_worse
Yes that is the one I was looking at . Do you know of anything else that can be used ?
@LRLRL i have started to use dildos and lube to help. I use solo time for different sizes to help me. My oh also started With fingers
I agree that this isnât going to help with being tight.
A dilator set would be better, as thats its purpose. LH sell 2 sets this and this.
I canât see that contraption helping- however, ive been worng before. If it turns you on a lot, it might help.
However this really is a bdsm implement, and the fitting of it will only turn on someone in the appropriate mindset for that puece of kit.
If youâre tight, and that is the concern yiure trying to address, i would, as others have, recommend dilators or dildos in incrasing sizes, lubes, to be used in your own leisurely time. Dont increase size early, wait you have an enjoyable time with what youâre practicing. If you find you enjoy being stretched, take your time with that too.
The right partner will love taking their time with you.
Until you feel comfortable to take them sexually, thereâs plenty hand or oral fun that can be had.