I never realised there were so many 'like minded' people out there - how naive of me, but it's nice to discover I'm not the only one who enjoys watching girl/girl porn. I would also like to take it a step further sometime, and actually experience sex with another woman. I am married and could never give up sex with a man, but I also believe sex between two women would be a very different experience. Guess this puts me in the 'bi/bi-curious' category External Media
I know what you mean. I love my fella to bits, we're talking about getting married, kids, the lot, and I couldn't be happier with him. I would never leave him, but i'd love to experience sex with a woman. He knows about it and says it's fine as long as he can be there, and encourages me to talk to women......but i'm shy. And I'm really scared of it messing up what we have.
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I'm right with you on that. Been married 25 years and still really love my hubby, just feel there's some stuff I'd really like to do - preferably before I'm too old! lol
My taste in porn is similarly open, however I find a lot of 'lesbian porn' too staged and targetted at titillating men. Less 'oh yes' and dodgy fake nails and more giving themselves up to the sheer unadulterated pleasure - but then it would be unlikely to be 'porn' I suppose.
Totally agree. The fake nails really annoy me - actually they make me shudder. I have long nails and they don't hurt etc but looking at it on porn just makes me wonder if there's an accident waiting to happen! And then there's the over the top groaning, which turns porn into a comedy for me. And I know sex and laughing (with not at) is a good thing, but I like my porn to turn me on, not snort with giggles.
i love to watch girl on girl pussy licking porn probably as that is how i would like to be liked so intensely; how can i get my hubby more into licking my pussy!
well if he doesnt like doing it, you really cant make him love it! and you shouldnt make him feel he should do soemthing he doesnt like it.
some women dont like givin blow jobs, some men dont like going down on women, some people dont like anal some do thats life!
i love to watch girl on girl pussy licking porn probably as that is how i would like to be liked so intensely; how can i get my hubby more into licking my pussy!
I think the best thing you can do is to talk to him about why he's not keen to see if it's something you could address easily e.g. having a shower together before hand to get all squeaky clean, or may be NOT taking a shower before hand or not using certain toiletries if he doesn't like the taste or smell.
If you're embarassed to bring it up randomly in conversation you could try watching some porn together that has the kind of oral you want in. Then you could say something like "mmm that looks really good, I'd love it if you licked/sucked my pussy just like that". I think men (and women actually) respond well to positive, encouraging statements so if you make it exciting and naughty rather than confrontational hopefully you'll get somewhere.
You could also try showing him what you want by taking his hand and licking/sucking/nibbling the palm in just the way you'd like him to pleasure you. It might be that he doesn't like it because he doesn't feel like he knows what to do and is secretly wishing for a lesson!
I think you'll get some answers and hopefully some oral action as long as you approach it in a light-hearted and sexy way i.e. "I want to feel your tongue on my clit" rather than "why won't you eat me out goddamnit!"
In answer to the original question, yes I love it but then Im bi so hey. Can't speak for straight gals - Ive been guilty of thinking all girls would 'go there' if stroked in the right way. Mentally or physically.
thanks for your advice,its only recentley i did confront him as to why he doesn,t do it and his reply was that he was not sure how to ,we have been together 18 years and he has just started giving me oral. and i to him back and i love doing it to him,and in the moment im dying to say lick my pussy i feel that i can hardly control myself i need it.
prior to me confronting him our sex lives was empty and i did not ever want sex i did it as i felt i had to and i have felt nothing for so many years because of private reasons,anyway things are soooo much better as we are resolving the issues.
Now i feel younger again and so horny i want it all just normall dirty sex i feel so passionate and excited thinking of licking his cock and other stuff ,i just want him to be the same cos i do beleive that when two people are in love they should be willing to try anything for there partner within reason no severe pain or anything but i would love to be tied up, maybe thats the next step, btw i always shower before possible oral cos im paranoid that i smell even though he says im fine
It's brilliant that you feel comfortable enough to talk to your husband about your desires and that you're starting to want more sex and you're able to identify what you want and ask for it! Well done you! That's some impressive progress!
If you want to try new things like bondage etc. I definately recomend watching some porn together or maybe look at some toys on love honey...that way you have something to focus on and it might open up discussions that you might otherwise be too shy to initiate!
thanks for your advice,its only recentley i did confront him as to why he doesn,t do it and his reply was that he was not sure how to ,we have been together 18 years and he has just started giving me oral. and i to him back and i love doing it to him,and in the moment im dying to say lick my pussy i feel that i can hardly control myself i need it.
In my opinion, if he wants you to give him oral sex and you do, and you would like him to return the favour but he declines solely on the grounds that after 18 years he hasn't bothered his arse learning how, that would bother me a whole heck of a lot.
If I were in your position, I would absolutely consider declining to ever give him oral again if he continued to decline to give it to you. I think using his lack of knowledge as an excuse is incredibly lame considering he is responsible for his own lack of knowledge!
In my opinion this is a serious situation which needs addressing right now. In my opinion, he is failing to meet your needs and offering no valid reason for doing so, whilst at the same time operating a double standard by expecting you to meet his needs. If this is important to you, I recommend that you assert yourself and stand your ground until he offers you what he should have been offering you all along. That's my take on it.
I never realised there were so many 'like minded' people out there - how naive of me, but it's nice to discover I'm not the only one who enjoys watching girl/girl porn. I would also like to take it a step further sometime, and actually experience sex with another woman. I am married and could never give up sex with a man, but I also believe sex between two women would be a very different experience. Guess this puts me in the 'bi/bi-curious' category External Media
why dont you tak to your husband about this,
me and my husband had this chat not long after we got together and he said he understood that a womans body is different to a blokes so he was happy for me to go for it and i now have a GF that i see twice a week and once a fortnight she joins me and OH (i had dabbled before we met)
your hubby may be over the moon for you i know mine was
i like girl on girl too - but then i also enjoy the real thing,
I'd just like to point out that any consensual expression of sexuality is just as "real" as any other. "Penis-in-vagina" is only one of a huge number of valid options.
If "penis-in-vagina" is the only real sex for you, then I personally would appreciate if you made that clear, instead of simply writing off other people's sexual diversity as being "not real" or "fake".
i like girl on girl too - but then i also enjoy the real thing,
I'd just like to point out that any consensual expression of sexuality is just as "real" as any other. "Penis-in-vagina" is only one of a huge number of valid options.
If "penis-in-vagina" is the only real sex for you, then I personally would appreciate if you made that clear, instead of simply writing off other people's sexual diversity as being "not real" or "fake".
Thank you.
I *think* she meant that she liked girl on girl porn but also enjoyed real girl on girl action. That's how I interpreted it and how I hope it was intended!External Media
i like girl on girl too - but then i also enjoy the real thing,
I'd just like to point out that any consensual expression of sexuality is just as "real" as any other. "Penis-in-vagina" is only one of a huge number of valid options.
If "penis-in-vagina" is the only real sex for you, then I personally would appreciate if you made that clear, instead of simply writing off other people's sexual diversity as being "not real" or "fake".
Thank you.
sorry if i offended im not sure what you mean as fake
what i meant by that was i enjoy watching girl on girl porn as was discussed in the original post but i also enjoy partaking in girl on girl action
i didnt mean any offence, (i normally have a habit of rambling and making long posts and was just trying to keep things short)
i like girl on girl too - but then i also enjoy the real thing,
I'd just like to point out that any consensual expression of sexuality is just as "real" as any other. "Penis-in-vagina" is only one of a huge number of valid options.
If "penis-in-vagina" is the only real sex for you, then I personally would appreciate if you made that clear, instead of simply writing off other people's sexual diversity as being "not real" or "fake".
Thank you.
I *think* she meant that she liked girl on girl porn but also enjoyed real girl on girl action. That's how I interpreted it and how I hope it was intended!External Media
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Thanks Kitty, yes thats what i meant, I will make sure i exlain myself better in future
me and my partner operate a give and recieve policy,he gives i recieve,i give he recieves...we generally have oral sex 2 maybe 3 times a week and its very intense..untill i meet my oh id never had it,id given oral but never recieved,for some reason i didnt like the idea,but me and oh talked and one afternoon it just happened and iv never looked back..it has to be a mutual thing cant be one sided
I dont get turned on my M-F porn...but thow in another M or F and hello!!!!!!
I love girl on girl action, and have had sex with women, but unfortunately probably wont experience it again :(I like watching women go down on each other, but im not the biggest fan of recieving oral...i much prefer someone whose good with their hands ;)
I also LOVE to give BJs, but HATE watching them on porn films....i find it slightly boring, and uncomfortable, especially when its clear the womans not into it.
me and my partner operate a give and recieve policy,he gives i recieve,i give he recieves.. [...] ..it has to be a mutual thing cant be one sided
Actually, in my relationship we have an oral sex give and receive policy too - my partner gives and I receive.
That's it. :)
We have explicitly negotiated this and have come to an agreement in which I get to boss him around and he gets to love it. :p This has worked well for us throughout our relationship ever since we got together over 3 years ago.
So I have personal experience that one sided oral sex can work very well, thank you. :)
me and my partner operate a give and recieve policy,he gives i recieve,i give he recieves.. [...] ..it has to be a mutual thing cant be one sided
Actually, in my relationship we have an oral sex give and receive policy too - my partner gives and I receive.
That's it. :)
We have explicitly negotiated this and have come to an agreement in which I get to boss him around and he gets to love it. :p This has worked well for us throughout our relationship ever since we got together over 3 years ago.
So I have personal experience that one sided oral sex can work very well, thank you. :)
i think thats like our other rule,whats mine is mine and whats yours is mine!!!!,i like the sound of that i must sayExternal Media
