Yet with me it’s the opposite, if I don’t hurry up it’s all over.
So at the age of 55, I’m finding that I can get a 90% erection for about two minutes by mental thoughts alone but if there is any preamble, such as my partner plugging in the iPad or some other delaying tactic it’s too late.
Now means now not in a few minutes nowadays. Although if foreplay commences quickly enough, I can penetrate still even after playing a few minutes, just have to concentrate.
I don’t think there’s any huge underlying issues, although I’m a bit tubby, it just stems from having to relearn everything after my recent operation.
As my hubbys sub, there are too many rules in general seriously though, when it comes to quickies, the rule is im available first if all. Its usually for his pleasure and not mine. He sometimes allows me to orgasm if hes feeling nice. If hes not, he will make me play with my clit until im about to blow and then tell me no. Personally though, i dont mind either way, but i do like it when he makes me beg for my orgasm
Haha love this topic! Quickie for us (myself and my partner) is one of us runs to our bedroom, brings down a wand vibrator, a dildo, a lube and tissues, I then masturbate as quick as I can with him hand and holding the tissue ready to cum into, she squats on the dildo while using the wand vibrator, usually about 30 seconds to a minute late she says “I’m close” and then “I’m cumming” and I then quicky speed up so that we orgasm together, watching each other as we masturbate to orgasm, and then after a few seconds breather we start tidying up
No rules for a quickie. What varies is position. In bed in the morning it usually means spooning. In living room it would be her on her knees on the sofa with me behind. Kitchen is normally standing rear entry leaning on the counter top.
We don’t have any rules. I don’t need lube, so far. We just do it. He usually makes me cum too though, unless I really don’t have time. I cum quick with a vibrator and fingers, so we can usually do both of us within 10 minutes. If he’s dashing off to work and I want one, he’ll cum in me quickly and I get the toys out after he’s gone.
Not sure there are rules?
But for us, a quickie is always doggy - often starting in the stairs, then finish in hard press on the bed (if we haven’t already)
Well I must say that I am impressed by this @Alibongo I wish that I could make my partner cum with a quickie, I really do. I often feel selfish because I cum and she doesn’t.
Has to be quick, usually clothes on, only her panties off or pulled to the side. Either my erection through the fly in my trousers or over the waist band if wearing joggers.
Needs to be fast and furious, it is usually in unusual places when the opportunity presents itself.