Sex & Talk.

What words do you like to hear while having sex?

Depends who's saying them and what mood I'm in, lol. However, lovehoney forum rules states no unnecessary expletives so I couldn't possibly answer without having the rule book thrown at me!!!

Depends on the occasion, but I enjoy my OH telling me what shes going to do to me or what she wants me to do to her. Sometimes though i agree silence is golden :)

What I'd like to hear is I love you. That's not going to happen so I'll settle for You're so good at that.

Depends what mood I'm in. Sometimes lots of really explicit talk and othertimes just general stuff such as " oh yeah, thats good " and plenty of moaning.

Definitively not "the ceiling needs painting" or "you missed that cobweb", or "have you finished yet"

I sometimes like to be told beforehand (quite explicitly) as to what's going to happen, but then as things progress, I'd much rather hear the various sounds and bits of feedback to show that we're enjoying ourselves - I love the 'oh gods' and the 'just like thats'

Depends on the situation sometimes love nothing more than hearing what he wants/is going to do to me, talking dirty to me. Then same can be said for hearing not a lot other than moans/general enjoyment sounds and don't stop or damn that feels good....to silence and just the communication of a look

I'd just like to hear something lol my OH rarely makes noise xx

Mr Charles wrote:

What words do you like to hear while having sex?

Buzz, slurp and squelch. Oh and the odd "ooohh" always goes down well, so too speak.

Does anyone ever get to the point of just before orgasm then your partner whispers something and it sort of puts you out of your groove?
I am all for a bit of dirty talk and ooohs and ahhs but sometimes its nice to say nothing...

JuicyJ89 wrote:

Does anyone ever get to the point of just before orgasm then your partner whispers something and it sort of puts you out of your groove?
I am all for a bit of dirty talk and ooohs and ahhs but sometimes its nice to say nothing...

Agreed unless it's done on purpose too stop you coming for just a little longer. My wife telling me "Iam not to come yet" has the total opposite effect. We Have laughed a lot about this it's just something that tips me over the edge lol.

JuicyJ89 wrote:

Does anyone ever get to the point of just before orgasm then your partner whispers something and it sort of puts you out of your groove?
I am all for a bit of dirty talk and ooohs and ahhs but sometimes its nice to say nothing...

Happens to me too often. =/

glad I am not alone!
GG I agree, if its to stop you coming on purpose thats ok but sometimes its like arghhh!

Yes,harder and Moaning anything within reason as long as it's said in the right way. if you know what I mean![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

omg haha! Definitely the wrong time to call you Mandy!

Yes
Ooooh
Aaaaaah!
Oh my god
I love you

All are good

Ooohs and Aaaahs and periods of quietness are the usual. I would be on the naughty step for a week if I called out "Mandy"; it wouldn't be just a glare.

My husband in daily life is very tacitern and only speaks when he really has to, he can sit through a noisy family meal and not say a word , or maybe utter just a handful of words during the whole day

but when we are having sex he talks non stop, mostly really good stuff but sometimes I think he is just "in the zone" and doesnt realise what he is saying ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

Hi Amanda - when on the naughty step I get told I need more training. Just a thought!!!!