Didn't do this until recently but as I'm now in a Ldr I was plesantly surprised when my wife started to send me sexy texts and pictures. Surprised and tormented to within an inch of my life. I think they can be good when used as a prelude to sex, albeit within a reasonable timeframe. Otherwise the recipient may be driven mad. Is it December yet?
Sex texting is loads fun
We don't sext because my partner doesn't like that sort of thing very much. I was a bit upset when I found that out because he had deflected my sexting attempts a few times and I'd felt stupid for bothering.
It's always worth asking what they will think before you start trying it out to avoid disappointment, embarassment or resentment.
My partner loves sexting! Sadly we never do it because I am just plain terrible at it! xx
We do but not as much as we used to. He's too busy in his job to take time to do it. Although I so enjoy sending him naughty photos when I know he's in the middle of a very important meeting to distract him
Yes me an my oh do :) i love it when hes at work i send him pics an messages,
Yea I do it a lot but I forget she might have the kids at home so it dont always goes down to well, we have sent pics too, even taken them at work in the past :)
Not really, personally I'm not too good at it & I feel silly doing it, even in person I'm not too keen on saying naughty things, the extent is probably, 'let's have sex, etc.'
MissNoir wrote:
Not really, personally I'm not too good at it & I feel silly doing it, even in person I'm not too keen on saying naughty things, the extent is probably, 'let's have sex, etc.'
I think its easier mid way through its easy to laugh if you just come out with a random thing like " I want to bend you over the washing machine"
All the time!
Long distance too, generally happens more the longer it's been since we had sex.
Yes we do it spieces things up and lots of fun teasing each other
KinkyFuckery wrote:
Yes we do it spieces things up and lots of fun teasing each other
Totally agree with you on this Kinky, it's a lot of fun
Me and my girlfriend 'sext' all the time although it's mainly words as her phone doesn't work too well with pictures (it's very old and she's getting a new one soon). It heightens the anticipation, turns us both on and allows both our imaginations to run wild as well as being loads of fun! Nothing quite like being on the bus on my way to see her, and receiving a real X rated message telling me what she's currently doing in the bath ha ha! :D :D Helps that we're both extremely good at it. I can see how it would be awkward or even cringe-worthy if either of the recipients aren't open to that sort of thing.
Sometimes I send her sexy stories which usually reach her during her break at work and get her all flustered ha ha! She says I've probably missed my calling and should be an erotic writer ha ha!
OP, if you're not sure, start slowly - don't dive straight into the X rated stuff, and see how it goes from there. You'll soon get a feel for if your partner is up for it or not. :)
I think its fun, i dont see my OH very often as lives further away and so mainly weekends, so the odd naughty messages or pictures really gets us in the mood, makes the week days go faster...unfortunaltey also makes me want to spend more money on this site to keep me happy in between meets lol 
Hello.
Hell yeah. We do not do it all the time but at least once or twice a month.
We started kinda soft but now it can get Very intense.
The last time I was sent one was when we had some hot weather and my oh was a bit sweaty.
And I got send pictures of him step by step of him lifting is shirt up and unbuttoning his jeans etc along with dirty texts.
Is was a complete turn ON so I got one of my toys out and positioned it against my knickers. I did however make sure the picture I sent back showed I was wet through my knickers and let's say he didn't do overtime for work that day X.
So I would recommend it to any one just make sure he's not the sort to share it with his friends before you start!
Hassling people into naughty talk is risky. I love sexting and I think my partner enjoys it when I do, but I have to pick my times carefully - if it's eleven in the morning and she's got a busy day at work ahead of her, I don't think she appreciates it Or if she's doing the school run.
Also, she's not that comfortable with responding in kind which is where the hassling bit comes into it.
One of my friends was on the job with his wife and totally hassling her to talk diry which she wasn't into at all, but he nagged her so much that eventually she exasperately snapped 'Fuck the pie!' while he was midstroke. He had to get off her he was laughing so much. We still tease her about it. :)
Well, I took your advise and sent a sext along with a photo. Wow, I know it got me really hot and horny when I was sending it, and boy it certainly had a fantastic desired effect on OH! He was downstairs at the time, me upstairs in the bedroom. Next thing I know he rushes up the stairs, bangs opens the door with a big smile on his face, grabs me and starts removing my trousers! The sex was fantastic! Definitely like this sext. But realise mustn't over use. Or else the effect isn't so dramatic!
Hot & Spicy wrote:
Well, I took your advise and sent a sext along with a photo. Wow, I know it got me really hot and horny when I was sending it, and boy it certainly had a fantastic desired effect on OH! He was downstairs at the time, me upstairs in the bedroom. Next thing I know he rushes up the stairs, bangs opens the door with a big smile on his face, grabs me and starts removing my trousers! The sex was fantastic! Definitely like this sext. But realise mustn't over use. Or else the effect isn't so dramatic!
ha ha sounds brilliant!
Fitnessfreak wrote:
MissNoir wrote:
Not really, personally I'm not too good at it & I feel silly doing it, even in person I'm not too keen on saying naughty things, the extent is probably, 'let's have sex, etc.'
I think its easier mid way through its easy to laugh if you just come out with a random thing like " I want to bend you over the washing machine"
see i did that, i sent "i need you to get some dog food oh and give me a good fucking later" lol
It can be a great we to say what you want and put it in to a bit of a story. You can keep it as tame or as outrageous as you want ;0)