Sex toy advice

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16407

what do you think of the one I've put a link too.

WhY lubricant do you suggest. I can't use anything with scent.

If you want a good budget lube http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15225 is good

if you can afford to splash out http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32314is excellent as it contains no nasty glycerine or parabens i personally would avoid any lube which has glycerine or parabens in as they can cause irritation and unplesant reactions

while i haven't used it personally sliquid lubes like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11369 often get recommended

aanda wrote:

well if you want chunky then this could be the thing http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31440

only a joke btw

Lol ! smashing begginers toy ;D

Myghost the second link you have sent me doesn't work unfortunately.

LilHorror wrote:

aanda wrote:

well if you want chunky then this could be the thing http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31440

only a joke btw

Lol ! smashing begginers toy ;D

sorry couldnt resist, im a bad person

I agree The durex lube is nice and I have never tried the others but I have heard the sliquid lube being recommended a lot.

aanda wrote:

LilHorror wrote:

aanda wrote:

well if you want chunky then this could be the thing http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31440

only a joke btw

Lol ! smashing begginers toy ;D

sorry couldnt resist, im a bad person

LOL it's ok you where only putting the option out there!

I have a very good idea what I'm going to get. Thank you all for the advice

Thats what we are here for! x :)

Lourdes wrote:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16407

what do you think of the one I've put a link too.

Personally im not keen to those type vibes. May i ask what it is that attracts you to that vibe? I know you said youre a virgin so arent keen on anything too big, but personally i would opt for the slimline jessica rabbit, or something a similar size. This rabbit and the other one thats similar are both shorter but are both girthier.

when it comes to vibes you can control how much you put in, for example a vibe with a 6 inch insertible length can be inserted 2 inches if you wish, but the girth always remains the same. The girth is usually the deciding factor in whether you find your toy comfortable or not.

I do think with these cheaper pocket vibes, they may be ok but after a few goes you find yourself wanting something more powerful, bigger, more vibration options etc.

I would go paraben and glycerine free:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25239

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20187

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12167

Even though these are not the cheapest stuff around, I would pay a few extra pounds to be sure there wouldn't be any irritation (sensitive skin and membranes are to be treated with care).

As for an insertable toy, I would go for something like this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30708

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24132

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28715

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30948

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29562

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21991.

Call me a hygiene freak if you feel like it but I would never buy an internal toy made from rubber (not even a supposedly skin safe one). Also, don't forget to buy a cleaner!

And as for a clitoral vibrator, perhaps something like this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26627

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27500.

And oh, don't be afraid to experiment. I have never had a partner, either, but I have become quite friendly with toys over the past few years.

Briona has a point that the material should be something safe, most people opt for 100% silicone. Rubber/jelly can degrade over time, and can harbour bacteria over time. Always store the toys safely.

but i think since you are looking at a first toy, jelly would be ok as once you decide what you like you will find yourself looking for an upgrade. I bought my first rabbit in november (slimline jessica rabbit) and when i knew i enjoyed the feeling i upgraded to a rechargable silicone version so the jelly one is no longer used.

Chances are this toy will let you know if its right for you, if you find you dont enjoy the rabbit ears then there are other vibes around without the ears. As they say practise makes perfect and it might take a few goes until you find the perfect toy for you.

A lot of slimline vibrators can be used on the clit as well. If you want to have both internal and external stimulation a slimline rabbit would probably be best. Bullets can't really be used internally...they are great but only really for use on the clit.

Lourdes wrote:

Myghost the second link you have sent me doesn't work unfortunately.

whoops should be http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32314

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I hope I can become friends with my toys too. I'm just scared about ordering them. In case people know what I'm ordering

Lourdes wrote:

I hope I can become friends with my toys too. I'm just scared about ordering them. In case people know what I'm ordering

Don't worry, Lovehoney have an amazing delivery system. As long as nobody opens your mail that you do not consent too.(which is a felony) Nobody will know what is in your package except you. :) Just one more reason why we all love LoveHoney as much!

Lourdes wrote:

I hope I can become friends with my toys too. I'm just scared about ordering them. In case people know what I'm ordering

Not very likely; your toys come in a totally non-descript packaging. What could be inside a box like that? Dog food? Beauty products? Sports accessories? Sex toys? Clothes? Whatever, actually. And you are not doing anything wrong, after all. As far as I know, no EU country has outlawed sex toys... Moreover, you are an adult and it is nobody's business what sex toys do you use...

Thanks