My experience has been that if you buy cheap, you buy twice.
Something to bear in mind.
Lots of good advice so far but just to back up a few points - kits are really good to try lots of different things out but you may need to replace them as they can be at the cheaper end of things.
Just about anything that vibrates can be used by couples, but a good wand vibrator steals the show and will last you years. LH make some very good ones and Doxys are very popular for a reason.
Couples vibrators that can be worn during PIV can be great but in our experience they are very anatomy dependent and work better for some folk than others.
Have fun!
Great thank you! Will take that in to account, I’m getting a lot of people mention wands and vibrating toys which I think I will go for and try
You’re very welcome hopefully some great times await you both !