That was my deal with my ex bf, i couldnt suffer then idea of him with someone else, even with me there but i liked the threesome idea, being bi sexual. So i got my pal involved and she did touch him but he was told it touches her she cuts it off :L! it was all on her terms regarding him n her, i let him away with more than i initally intended but no actual penitration fine by me, he loved the extra attention too :L
I wouldnt just do it if its his idea and i hated it, i wouldnt do it just not to be shy, and i asked if i hated it could we stop whenever, i was told just to get up n go if it wasnt what i expected, so there was no intense shouting at each other lol! And it was in a hotel so there wasnt any word around town, not that anyone woulda cared
I wouldnt do it with my current, as its not his thing he doesnt like hearing anything ive done either.
I think I would really really enjoy it ;) I'm just a worrier and I'll try talk myself out of everything. Need to live a little I guess. Just like I say I worry and especially as my husband is the only one I have gone the whole way with. xx
If you will enjoy it, do it. You only live once. I started with other men not that long ago and hubby was my only till then. I regretted not doing it sooner, if you don't like it then lesson learnt.
Just try n make sure you can stop it if you dont like it :) n dont do it at home if your worried about neighbours or anythin odd afterwards, we were all right since we knew her, but he still lived with his parents so wasnt something we wanted to be walked in on :L xx
There is nothing wrong with meing polyamorus and you should be yourself. I think you should do it. Otherwise your like would be dry like a slice of toast.