So I recently watched ‘Sex Love and Goop’ on Netflix and was introduced to the ‘Sexual Blueprint’ which is a blueprint that allows you to better understand how you are erotically wired to best receive pleasure.
Now I’m a skeptic about most of these things and so far have only done the free online quiz which involves 10 questions. Yes only 10 questions, that are fairly vague too in my opinion, but it profiled both me and my partner so accurately.
There are five different blueprint types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky & Shapeshifter. I was adamant that I would be ‘kinky’ as I’m rather adventurous and imaginative when it comes to sex and I was completely unsure on what my partner would be as I can’t really place her in any of those categories easily, she also agreed with this.
My results came back to my surprise as Energetic, but once I began to read into what this profile contained a lot of my ‘kinks’ or ‘desires’ started to make sense from this perspective. It also highlighted my ‘sexual shadows/weaknesses’ which again made so much sense. It also mentioned that ‘Energetics’ are often the most misunderstood of all, especially in cis-gendered men which once again resonates with me and some personal feelings I have dealt with in the past.
Now onto my parter, the category I would least place her into is sexual and when her blueprint came back, it was indeed sexual. When she initially told me I was telling myself inside my head well that’s not right, but once again after reading the breakdown it couldn’t have described her any more accurately. Very interesting and thought provoking indeed! I don’t have her results email to hand so I don’t want to begin to explain the blueprint from memory but happy to update a later point if people are interested or maybe someone else could chime in.
If this is new to you and you would like to check it out, I will attach the link for the free quiz here.
Would also highly recommend the Netflix series Sex Love & Goop, it has a very interesting perspective on sex and desire throughout.
Has anyone else took the quiz? If so what was your results and did you find it profiled you accurately?
** There is a paid version of the quiz, which is just under $20, we haven’t done this yet but I’m definitely going to suggest it to my partner as I think we could both learn a lot about each other and how to best serve each others blueprint. If anyone has done this I would love to know if you think it’s worth the money?