I'm doing a bit of soul searching at the moment, and want to know everyones thoughts on sexual compatibility?
What if everything else is just perfect, but in the bedroom it just isn't?
Bit of a back story because its obvious this is for me: Happily married, 7 years, 2 kids and all the fairytale stuff in between. Mr L does the dishes, cleans the house, has a great job, we have nice things, we are best friends and always work as a team, I trust him implicitly and know i'd never find anyone like him BUT his sex drive is really lacking. I mean, he could go a month and not bat an eyelid. He is soooo affectionate, loving, kisses and cuddles me, holds my hands, walks next to the road so I don't have to, holds my legs at night when we watch TV.. You know, everything you could ever want yet the only thing we argue about is sex! HELP!
I'm not saying I want it everyday - it would be nice but I am realistic but surely he should want me, desire me. He says we aren't teenagers anymore and that he is tired from work and the kids and I get that but I read all of these forum posts of men wanting their women and I want that. Why doesn't he want me? We have open communication and I know that he rarely masturbates, but I do, alot.
Maybe we just aren't sexually compatible? I dont know I guess I just wanted to get that off my chest to you lovely bunch.