Sexy games

I've just been browsing the sexy games for a possible xmas pressie for the husband and wondered if anyone had experience of playing them? We had Monogamy years ago and it didn't really work for us so I don't want to splash out if others are going to be the same. I was looking at Nooki and Tie and Tease, has anyone got any experience? Tie and Tease appeals, but I'm 99.9% sub so not sure it would do it for me!