Mrs Expert and I have been together a long time and all that time since she was 16 has shaved and would not have it any other way she says its cooler better looking amd just more erotic .
From my point of view Its better looking and makes oral sex much much better no hairs in the mouth and teeth in fact I think that now if a was confronted with a hairy one I would run a mile it just looks unnatural to me now and not womanly .
But over the years she has had some problems with Dr,s midwives etc who think she is being abused by me in some way, which is very offensive to us both , have attitudes changed , do you get a reaction from medics when they see your shaved pussy or is it normal these days to be shaved ?
I love a shaved entrance, maybe a small line or tufted at the top!
My ex was full bush I hated it but there was no oral allowed either way
Sex was always her on top or me on top, if I was lucky a few minutes of fumbling first
As she was my first real love I had no idea this wasn’t normal!
It wasn’t till after we split up and I met my current partner I had any idea what a sex life was.
But while my partner was pregnant both times she let the bush grow back, I think she would have been to embarrassed all the different people looking up and getting to clear a view if you know what I mean!
I love a shaved pussy and my Mrs tends to vary it from shaved to just a small landing strip depending on her mood. She has never mentioned ever feeling uncomfortable in the medic scenario but then again I don't think any woman finds its a comfortable experience for loads of reasons
I like varierty! On myself I go from completely bare (waxed not shaved - shaved would hurt!) to au natural.
On men I like a bit of hair, especially if they have a hairy chest (yum) becase it just goes with the manly look, but you gotta keep it trim guys!!
Mrs N has her pubes shaved into a scale likeness of Elvis Presley. Problem is, every time Mr N goes down on her he can't get the thought out of his head that he's french kissing Elvis.
Thankyouverymuch. Mr.Naughty has left the building.
Oh, you are funny sometimes Mr N.
Shaved can be a problem tho can't it? Unless you are a porn star on the movies us women can't have a hair free/strip without effort and usually pain or discomfort. Be it waxing, shaving, hair removal creams/solutions (which never do the job), you've either got to be dedicated or not. I just 'trim' and keep it tidy'.
It's such an effing hassle, down-there haircare. I prefer to have mine shaved, but Truly's right, you really have to be dedicated to the cause to keep it up, and when you're between boyfriends (like me) it just seems like a whole lot of effort.
Hair removal creams in my down-there area sounds very, very scary to me. Wouldn't they burn?
shellyboo wrote:
It's such an effing hassle, down-there haircare. I prefer to have mine shaved, but Truly's right, you really have to be dedicated to the cause to keep it up, and when you're between boyfriends (like me) it just seems like a whole lot of effort.
Hair removal creams in my down-there area sounds very, very scary to me. Wouldn't they burn?
I thought so too, but one day just went ahead and slapped it on. Result : no burning but to say the least, patchy. My bits looked like they'd been savaged by a rabid dog who wasn't that hunry nor indeed, in need of a drink. Don't think I'll try it again.
WRT hair removal creams we found that they do work well, we like veet the best,its always a good result smooth looks great but it is difficult/messy to do alone so we only use it for special occasions dinner out weekends away etc most of the time mrs E shaves after 26 years she is rather good at it .
Its best with both methods to have a couple of days growth for best results .Mrs E has never done waxing looks too painful and dont forget with cream to test a small part of skin first. and keep it off your inner parts a friend really helps here .
On a side note what do you all think of pubic hair colour although I prefer shaved I would rather she had dark pubes than red or blonde I have had experience of both and found them not to my taste and think I would prefer them shaved more so with redheads as I think redheads are stunning and shaved perfect, unshaved turns me off I think its about the labia minora and hair colour clashing for me Im about the same for blondes too . What do you guys think wrt pubic hair colour should all blondes and redheads shave ?
I don't particulary give a crap about the colour as long as there is some! If a man doesn't have hair down there it just looks wrong, and for a woman no hair looks awful as it makes you look like a little girl. I'm not a bush supporter, but I think there has to be some neatly trimmed hair just to give that womanly edge. We're real people not smooth plastic dolls for christs sake.
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Sorry- I just hate the bare trend. Tried it, disliked it, wouldn't do it again even if he begged.
On the removal cream debate- Nair do sachets which are really good. Get everything totally gone, if thats what you're looking for.
What do you mean by labia minora and color clashing? As a proudly natural blonde whos tails match the top coat I can't see any clashing. I think a pale or fair haired person with jet black pubic hair would clash more wouldn't it? (Women anyway- never seen a man with anything other than black. Assumed they were dark accross the board!)
I like bare on me, I agree I thought the little girl thing was weird before I tried it, but I really like it now. It's very much a personal taste thing. I don't go bare all the time though, I like variety so vary a lot. Bare just feels fun especially with oral sex!
To be honest we don't think any of the creams really work all that well; and Mr.N had a nasty case of "Great Balls Of Fire" last time he used Veet. Coarse sandpaper followed by a bottle of vodka and lots of Savlon should do the trick though. Perhaps someone would like to try it and report back?
crayola wrote:
I don't particulary give a crap about the colour as long as there is some! If a man doesn't have hair down there it just looks wrong, and for a woman no hair looks awful as it makes you look like a little girl. I'm not a bush supporter, but I think there has to be some neatly trimmed hair just to give that womanly edge. We're real people not smooth plastic dolls for christs sake.
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Sorry- I just hate the bare trend. Tried it, disliked it, wouldn't do it again even if he begged.
On the removal cream debate- Nair do sachets which are really good. Get everything totally gone, if thats what you're looking for.
What do you mean by labia minora and color clashing? As a proudly natural blonde whos tails match the top coat I can't see any clashing. I think a pale or fair haired person with jet black pubic hair would clash more wouldn't it? (Women anyway- never seen a man with anything other than black. Assumed they were dark accross the board!)
Well wrt my colour tastes they are just that my tastes... but to expand first redheads so we have red pubes and red labia against pale skin not a combo I like and blondes pale skin also blonde pubes again its not my thing thats all just not my taste .I do like both otherwise.
Wrt looking like a little girl I really dont think it does I think an prepubesant 12 yo looks like a little girl and not a fully mature woman funny how we differ there, what a difference a few hairs can make to ones feeling of womanhood. But these are only my opinions and tastes
You say you have Only ever seen dark pubes on a man you should see either redheads or blonde guys its not pretty only my personel tastes much like the wallpaper in my house I hate it but the Mrs loves it but we dont make a thing of it .
While we are at it does shaving under arms make you look like a little girl too ? or removing top lip hair or shaving legs ? I
expert wrote:
crayola wrote:
I don't particulary give a crap about the colour as long as there is some! If a man doesn't have hair down there it just looks wrong, and for a woman no hair looks awful as it makes you look like a little girl. I'm not a bush supporter, but I think there has to be some neatly trimmed hair just to give that womanly edge. We're real people not smooth plastic dolls for christs sake.
/rant
Sorry- I just hate the bare trend. Tried it, disliked it, wouldn't do it again even if he begged.
On the removal cream debate- Nair do sachets which are really good. Get everything totally gone, if thats what you're looking for.
What do you mean by labia minora and color clashing? As a proudly natural blonde whos tails match the top coat I can't see any clashing. I think a pale or fair haired person with jet black pubic hair would clash more wouldn't it? (Women anyway- never seen a man with anything other than black. Assumed they were dark accross the board!)
Well wrt my colour tastes they are just that my tastes... but to expand first redheads so we have red pubes and red labia against pale skin not a combo I like and blondes pale skin also blonde pubes again its not my thing thats all just not my taste .I do like both otherwise.
Wrt looking like a little girl I really dont think it does I think an prepubesant 12 yo looks like a little girl and not a fully mature woman funny how we differ there, what a difference a few hairs can make to ones feeling of womanhood. But these are only my opinions and tastes
You say you have Only ever seen dark pubes on a man you should see either redheads or blonde guys its not pretty only my personel tastes much like the wallpaper in my house I hate it but the Mrs loves it but we dont make a thing of it .
While we are at it does shaving under arms make you look like a little girl too ? or removing top lip hair or shaving legs ? I
Well, little girls do have leg hair... so shaving it is definitely a rite of passage into womanhood, as is the growth of pubic and underarm hair. I've been shaving my legs since I was about 12 and had to wear a skirt to school.
I think Crayola's point is quite a common one - it's really just personal taste. I find it sexy and just neater and cleaner, but I know quite a few people who prefer there be some hair there, both male and female!
It would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing, wrt all things including excess body hair and I see your point Shellyboo about some people enjoying their women and men to be hirsute
But for the majority of us who prefer the more refined look I dont see that shaving ones pubes makes one less of an adult sexually, again my view. I have noticed guys of my age who are getting a bit thin on top to be overly concerned with it I dont have a problem there so maybe thats why I dont understand peoples hair concerns .
I do know that if I were to lose all my hair it would not affect my feelings of sexuality as I dont see how hair has anything to do with it Im still a man whatever I think we must be careful not to hang our feelings of self on such an unimportant issue such as how much hair is on our body but clearly some people do .
I wonder if people who like all the hair get turned on by Bigfoot ?
hi all!
Hair scares me! Seriously. I have this strange thing and it really grosses me out. Thankfully my partner is a hair free zone (except on her head, thats ok) but no, body hair really creeps me out and so it all has to go and if Im going to be down there, I dont want to have to take an entire troop of sherpas just to find where Im going. Give me smooth and I'll stay there forever! hehe.
I love hair- someone show me big foot and I'll tell you if he turns me on lol.
Expert- sorry if you took my post offensivley, it wasn't intended that way (I mostly didn't understand what would clash lol- thanks for the expansion). As you said, just expressing my personal opionion as the topic asked for :) And I have seen blonde men naked for the record- and dark hair there. Wonder if its a northern thing lol.
Quote- While we are at it does shaving under arms make you look like a little girl too ? or removing top lip hair or shaving legs ? I
That sounds rather snappy- I hope it wasn't intended that way. Sure it wasn't. Anyway- obviously it doesn't make you look like a little girl. I just find something weird about toally bare pubes. *Shrugs* Each to their own eh? I think it's cos I look pretty young for my age, so I dislike making myself look any younger. Bit of pop psychology for you all there lol.
By the way I'd like to point out that I never said it made a person any less of an adult sexually. I just said it look child like in that... oh god knows. I've tried to write it five different ways and delated them all. I'm not even going to bother trying to describe it cos the forum will get bogged down in language and people will fall out with me over misinterpretation.
expert wrote:
It would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing, wrt all things including excess body hair and I see your point Shellyboo about some people enjoying their women and men to be hirsuteExternal Media
But for the majority of us who prefer the more refined look I dont see that shaving ones pubes makes one less of an adult sexually, again my view. I have noticed guys of my age who are getting a bit thin on top to be overly concerned with it I dont have a problem there so maybe thats why I dont understand peoples hair concerns .
I do know that if I were to lose all my hair it would not affect my feelings of sexuality as I dont see how hair has anything to do with it Im still a man whatever I think we must be careful not to hang our feelings of self on such an unimportant issue such as how much hair is on our body but clearly some people do .
I wonder if people who like all the hair get turned on by Bigfoot ? External Media
Actually I've just reread this post, and I'm quite insulted at some of the undertones of accusation which it contains.
Shite I re-reread it and now I've read it the correct way I did the first time. Sorry Expert- accusation withdrawn. Appology accepted?
I'll just be fecking off to the anal forum now save myself some embarassment lol.
I like to be bare down there, one or two trickies however, regrowth leaves me prone to ingrowing hairs that tend to get inflamed at least until Mrs T sets about me with those relieving tweezers!! Any tips for preventing ingrowing gratefully received.
Being shaven also tends to make my cock look bigger- and yes guilty as charged of being a vain creature !!!
Agree creams are messy but electric trimmers give me the willies ha ha!!
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