She wants to play

Any ideas on how to meet a unicorn

Nope but if you find the answer do share it!

Seriously though just perseverance on "those" sorts of dating or hook up sites.

First of all your user name nearly threw me as I was expecting a guy. Perhaps thats me being to presumptuous.

Perhaps you need to look at specialist dating sites. As you would already know same sex partners are more difficult to find as they are still quite rare number wise despite the more liberalisation in recent years .

Some of the guys and gals who are in same sex relationships may be albe to give you some better pointers.

But then again I dont understand why you are looking for another girl when your profile states your engaged ? Thats just confused me .com  

Welcome to the forums

mysteron wrote:

First of all your user name nearly threw me as I was expecting a guy. Perhaps thats me being to presumptuous.

Perhaps you need to look at specialist dating sites. As you would already know same sex partners are more difficult to find as they are still quite rare number wise despite the more liberalisation in recent years .

Some of the guys and gals who are in same sex relationships may be albe to give you some better pointers.

But then again I dont understand why you are looking for another girl when your profile states your engaged ? Thats just confused me .com

Welcome to the forums

If they're looking for a unicorn they're most likely looking for a third person to join them as a couple. Unicorn most often referring to a bisexual female as far as I'm aware. But yeah, hope that clears up the confusion :)

As for meeting someone to join you OP, maybe check out fetlife, dating sites, see if you have a local swinging scene? They may seem as mythical and hard to find as their name implies but I've seen a few locals on fetlife who either state they are a unicorn or that they're up for joing the right couple so you may have some luck there.

I learn something new every day on here!
Welcome to the forums ☺️

Unicorn: A Bisexual person (not always female) who is willing to join an existing couple. Usually, this person will date and become involved sexually with both parties in the couple. 

wow I literally didn't even know this type of unicorn was a thing.. I thought she ment a real unicorn πŸ¦„πŸ¦„πŸ¦„( although they are not real πŸ˜‚)

feel so old now πŸ™ˆ

First of all, welcome! I'm absolutely new, but still welcome! I have never heard of unicorns before, not in this sense at least... and so I wouldn't know how to help :( 
Don't feel bad, but my first reaction was actually quite entertained... I thought of a literal unicorn :P

BigishBen wrote:

Learn something new every day!! I just thought it was a mythical horse with a horn!

that was the words I was looking for πŸ˜‚

As most have said it's best to check out fetlife and other local swinger ads, also check out some local swinger and adult clubs as they are dotted around as "private clubs". Good luck in your search and welcome to the forums

Delboy1991 wrote:

wow I literally didn't even know this type of unicorn was a thing.. I thought she ment a real unicorn πŸ¦„πŸ¦„πŸ¦„( although they are not real πŸ˜‚)

feel so old now πŸ™ˆ

I share your feeling Dellboy - lol! Feel old too.

Lovehoney - Leanne wrote:

Unicorn: A Bisexual person (not always female) who is willing to join an existing couple. Usually, this person will date and become involved sexually with both parties in the couple.

Thanks Leanne

Wow Took us two years to see these lol. Still haven't found a unicorn πŸ˜•