If I absolutely had to choose, I'd rather look at very small breasts for the rest of my life than very big ones. I know it's easier said than done, but you should definitely embrace what you have. Small breasts can be just as attractive and sexy as big ones, if not more so.
In terms of actually answering the question: I think you either want to go braless, or think about bralettes. I've noticed more and more companies seem to be making cute, elegant, and/or sexy bralettes. I've often heard my wife wish she didn't need the support so she could wear these.
Finally, if you are self-conscious about going braless in public, you could get some discreet pasties, so you don't end up worrying about your nipples being on show. You might find that gives you the confidence to ditch bras?
Totally agree with oldman about going bra less I’m a fan of natural boobs whether they’re small big pert or saggy I like them all!
Thanks. I think I need to change my own perception of my own boobs, I have a little bit, but I could still learn to love my body more I guess. What do you all think then of someone going braless and wearing something sheer-ish like lace or silk, where it's pretty obvious there's no bra? I'm wondering if I opt for wearing something like that in public will I get glares and people thinking I'm just an exhibitionist or is it totally acceptable.
Personally LMS, I'd give that a go. If I didn't need to wear a bra most of the time, I wouldn't. So yes, start with wearing a sweater etc, but I'd absolutely work up to a silk blouse with no bra. That was in my mind as I started reading your first post.
Also, if you don't wear knickers at home, try going out without them on as well. Makes you feel really naughty.
Thanks all. I'm definitely going to start embracing the freedom. I mean, I'm not going to go burn all my bras right away, but just that I'm going to be a little bit more flexible and even start going out without underwear on.
so glad I’ve come across this post as I too find it difficult to find something to make me feel sexy with small boobs. I find overly padded bras once off actually make my minimal boobs ache from where they have been stretched and pushed into place! Hopefully I can find some new confidence to go brakes of find something suitable. There isn’t much point to my reply I just wanted to say you aren’t alone in how you feel! 💗
so glad I’ve come across this post as I too find it difficult to find something to make me feel sexy with small boobs. I find overly padded bras once off actually make my minimal boobs ache from where they have been stretched and pushed into place! Hopefully I can find some new confidence to go brakes of find something suitable. There isn’t much point to my reply I just wanted to say you aren’t alone in how you feel! 💗
It's definitely challenging. For the most part, I feel like a teenage boy 😔 and I think actually a huge part of that comes from the media portraying most women with massive boobs and a lot of retailers sell bras showing larger boobs filling them. I would love for retailers to show smaller breasts (hint hint LH - this would be awesome!). But we can do this, we can learn to love our small boobs and dress them up pretty ♥️♥️
I was thinking of things like that, almost to wear as a top with a jacket/cardigan/low cut sweater/crop sweater or something so I don't feel completely exposed - in the beginning anyway, maybe I would eventually brave it to wear it on it's own.
This whole thread has brought me many fondle memories of some of my favorite smaller breasts I have had the privilege to fondle , lick and suck on . The advantage smaller breasts have is when nipples are erect they point straight out which is quite pleasing to myself and many other men .
I'd say embrace your body and braless is acceptable if that's what you choose. Just a tight t shirt/ vest top is a great look in my opinion. I've been in a 'new' relationship for a little while now and my partner has small boobs. Even now if she's topless/naked her unconscious reaction is to cross her arms over her chest. I think they're lovely, it's her I want not just her boobs. It was more nerve wracking for me the first time we were naked; she obviously had no idea if I was large or small but I obviously didn't expect her to be a DD cup 😄 I wish I could persuade her to go braless but alas....
You know there are many men, maybe women that far prefer small boobs myself included, embrace your qualities, personally DON'T go the surgical route to enlarge them, they're fine the way you are?
You know there are many men, maybe women that far prefer small boobs myself included, embrace your qualities, personally DON'T go the surgical route to enlarge them, they're fine the way you are?
I completely agree with this. However, I think it's worth noting that most women who choose to have breast surgery are probably not doing it to please men (or anyone else).
We all perceive flaws in ourselves which are hard to un-see, no matter whether other people think we're great.
I'd say embrace your body and braless is acceptable if that's what you choose. Just a tight t shirt/ vest top is a great look in my opinion. I've been in a 'new' relationship for a little while now and my partner has small boobs. Even now if she's topless/naked her unconscious reaction is to cross her arms over her chest. I think they're lovely, it's her I want not just her boobs. It was more nerve wracking for me the first time we were naked; she obviously had no idea if I was large or small but I obviously didn't expect her to be a DD cup 😄 I wish I could persuade her to go braless but alas....
I was out and about braless recently and although I was wearing a sweater, I found myself crossing my arms across my chest quite a bit. I think it's just different and something to adjust to. I never thought about a male partner being more nervous getting naked the first time for that reason. I guess we all have insecurities and get nervous.
You know there are many men, maybe women that far prefer small boobs myself included, embrace your qualities, personally DON'T go the surgical route to enlarge them, they're fine the way you are?
I completely agree with this. However, I think it's worth noting that most women who choose to have breast surgery are probably not doing it to please men (or anyone else).
We all perceive flaws in ourselves which are hard to un-see, no matter whether other people think we're great.
For years, I definitely felt like the breast augmentation was purely my choice, solely for myself; and I do, for the most part, stand by that. However, I do think that I was influenced by society subconsciously, and although I felt that it were just for me, it kinda wasn't really my decision at all. I think that's partly why I'm unsure right now - like, I've definitely changed my perception of myself and more content and confident in my body, but I have entirely ruled out an enlargement, I just want to be 100% sure that the choice I make is only for myself and the right decision for me, and right now I don't feel like it is, so until I'm certain, it's not going to happen.
I'd say embrace your body and braless is acceptable if that's what you choose. Just a tight t shirt/ vest top is a great look in my opinion. I've been in a 'new' relationship for a little while now and my partner has small boobs. Even now if she's topless/naked her unconscious reaction is to cross her arms over her chest. I think they're lovely, it's her I want not just her boobs. It was more nerve wracking for me the first time we were naked; she obviously had no idea if I was large or small but I obviously didn't expect her to be a DD cup 😄 I wish I could persuade her to go braless but alas....
I was out and about braless recently and although I was wearing a sweater, I found myself crossing my arms across my chest quite a bit. I think it's just different and something to adjust to. I never thought about a male partner being more nervous getting naked the first time for that reason. I guess we all have insecurities and get nervous
I'm sure you can crack that one. When you catch yourslef doing it, uncross your arms, and in fact, positively think about not crossing them and showing off your braless boobs. Things like pushing a trolley round a supermarket too, where your arms are employed elsewhere.It'll soon become second nature.
I have small boobs and really like the idea of going braless - I've already ditched regular push-up bras (apart from bedroom lingerie etc) in favour of wireless but still padded comfortable ones. For me the issue is shape: I find a padded T-shirt style gives a more feminine shape under clothes. I don't mind about lacy bedroom stuff - that can look sexy, but most daytime clothes are cut to flatter a feminine figure... maybe I will try it with a thin cashmere top and jeans in this cold June, but thoughts about shape / cut of clothing would be interesting...?
LMS, I’m not sure where you live but in and around London the no bra vibe has really taken off! I work around Brixton and must say that the bra to no bra ratio is almost 50/50. If it’s not popular in your area yet it will be soon, maybe you’ll be a trend setter? As for what to wear out and about I understand your worry, most girls I see range from the tightest see through tops and lace with large gaps to the huge baggy t shirts and jumpers. My gf is a huge no bra fan and she only ever seems to get weird looks from the older generations because I think they aren’t as accepting, other than the odd pervy guy that’s all. Most people are either oblivious or don’t mind. I hope this helps? As for bedroom wear, why not go for either lacy body stockings where the fit is super tight anyway or for the “night dress” style things where breast size doesn’t matter? Finish it off with sexy undies and tights and you’re good to go! My last final tips (no pun intended) for going braless in public, if you’re wearing something tighter and you’re more self conscious about your nipples poking out, wear a kimono, cardigan or other open front items to slightly cover up your nipples, plus if you have long hair you can pull that in front of them. Lastly have you tried nipple daisies? They range from small silicon sticky disks to thin cotton covers that stick over and cover your nipples so the fact you aren’t wearing a bra is harder to tell. I hope some of this helps as no one should be afraid of what they look like, especially in other people’s eyes. Just be yourself and they will all have to be ok with it because you are you! Much love!
LittleMsSenual ; so any more updates ? I just remembered and old girlfriend and my wife both really liked a silky undershirt or just a silky top . They loved the feeling of the material sliding across their nipples . And I must say I fully approved because their nipples got hard from the feeling .
I have small breasts and now in my late 50s I am quite pleased as being small they haven't gone too far south. In my youth they were smaller as I was thinner and I rarely wore a bra especially with summer dresses etc. Oh would like me to go braless more often now. Maybe I should more. Also as previous posts smaller boobs are complemented by wearing lovely lace body's xx
I've gone braless recentley a few times just to try - mostly under looser fitting shirts, and with a lace body type thing underneath. It was fine. And comfortable. Today I gave in to my own pressure and added a couple of those silicone implants with 'tit tape' under a close fitting dress for some added shape - it was an 'occasion' and I felt happy with that compromise under a slinky chemise and stockings. It would have looked good without the silicone too. It's all quite freeing! Options, ladies...