Basically I've been with my boyfriend for around 3 months now, and at first I thought he was shy/inexperienced, as we spent several nights in bed together and he never tried to lay his hands on me!
How wrong could I be?? Turns out that he was just trying to be respectful rather than disinterested, and it's clear to me now that he has a sexual appetite that any man would be proud of! Even more suprised was I to find he owns some hand cuffs and leg cuffs. I have hand cuffs too, but frankly compared to his, mine are rather flimsy.
He's now hinting that maybe he'd perhaps like me to take control and I guess 'dominate' a bit more in the bedroom. For example, when I asked him what kind of costume he'd most find a turn on, he said he'd like to see me in a police uniform, and he's said before that I don't necessarily have to be quite so 'generous' to him.
Now, this is rather uncharted territory for me. Quite frankly I haven't really even put my hand cuffs to much use before. I LOVE sex, typically though I'm more submissive and I prefer the guy to be in control and all manly, it's sexy as hell! Still, I'm willing to give it a try, but I'm worried that I might have shyness issues of my own! Never much been one to 'perform' for anyone, never felt comfortable bringing myself to orgasm with any previous boyfriends staring at me.
Strangely though, I found myself initiating phone sex with him just over a week ago, which was a complete first for me! Always found the idea kinda embarrassing before, so no idea where that urge to turn him on by letting him hear my moans down the phone came from. And just yesterday I used my trusty rabbit to warm myself up while laying next to him, and didn't feel any cringyness at all!
So, considering I seem to feel pretty comfortable with him, I want to try being this sexy, in-control woman he'd like me to be from time to time. I guess if I were to dress up as bad cop I'm asking for advice on things I can do/say/practice? Or any potential equipment I should consider?