I’m not 100% sure how I got there. Probably early adoption of porn? I’ve just always wanted it harder and early on I’ve liked it rough, so I’ve always been OK with it. Some guys I’ve had to really guide and get them to be OK with it. Others are, of course, more than excited.
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I enjoy a bit of face slapping (always her on me and I expressly tell her before I want it). My heaven is when I’m had cuffed behind my back on my knees and she slaps me but it’s always incredibly gentle. I’d want it to be harder but I think she’s a little scared so I don’t push it.
she certainly wouldn’t enjoy it when the roles are reversed
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That’s not my speed personally so that’s never happened.
Now, some women wanted and liked me to slap or spank them with my erection, on various places on them but it was known ahead of time, requested by them etc.
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Face slapping is something most people do wrong. I saw a scene where a man slapped a woman but missed her face and caught her ear, tried it again and caught her lower jaw. They were not light slaps. Fortunatly the Dungeon Moniter walked past just after the second slap and interviened.
I’ve done light face slapping but I keep it light and make sure my aim is on point by lifting my partners chin and holding it so I make sure I’m avoiding the jaw line.
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Well, you’re a professional so of course you’re on point! 
Seriously now, you’re being an adult, using your brain and doing things correctly, which is how things are supposed to be done in such situations.
Sadly not all folks think enough before doing things, be it this or so many other things, in or out of the bedroom.
I know I’m speaking to the choir, that you’re aware of all of this but there are ways to do things and ways to NOT do things, especially with things like bondage, spanking etc. Safe words, aftercare etc.
It’s sad and disheartening to see some rush into things, be over eager. Bad things may happen and sadly they sometimes do.
Like many things in life, the theory doesn’t always match the reality.
I have afriend who swears that the penis is the best spanking impliment and it isn’t even close! 
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I’m a huge fan of doing that to women with my penis, as long as they are game I mean. Most weren’t, some were though, thankfully.
Miss Heather doesn’t like or want me to do it to her breasts, or face but she loves when I spank her bottom with my erection and I love it too, especially being an ass man.
I like repeat sessions and nobody comes back for another bad experience.
And I’m not anywhere close to proessional. Let’s just say I am very enthusiastic and well practiced.
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