Brilliant, thank you 
sounds like short is probubly a sensible place to start
Let us know how you get on @Green_Eyed_Girl. I wanted to have a go at some solo impact play but I don’t seem to be able to get into the right frame of mind on my own. I enjoy my nipple clamps and suckers and pin wheel but that’s more because I like the sensation or I see it as a “challenge”.
Might be a while as im still mulling what to get 
so i’ll get back to you.
Also have the added complication of shared house so have to wait for the right time to try this kind of thing…or make a suitably noisy playlist, also viabke option
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Nipple clamps are great for predicament bondage fun.
loop the chain of the clamps around a post etc, and attach them to your nipples.
Cuff your wrists behind your back (practice to make sure you can get out using a key first).
Ensure the key is out of reach when in this predicament, like at the other side of the room.
The only way to get the key is to get those nipple clamps off.
The only way you are going to do that is by moving away from the post, pulling your nipples until the clamps come off.
A little bit of pain before you are released.
Add a remote vibrating insertable for even more fun
If you are struggling to do it, being close to orgasm can help with the clamp removal too.
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Here is a photo of my self bondage setup to go with my above post . It is a bit more challenging because at my age I am not near as flexible as when a young man . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/494?u=oldman
Awesome setup.
Nothing like being tied spread eagled to the bed.
I hope the whip is there for more than hiding your particulars 
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You may find more ideas here and I’m happy to help going forward.
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solo bdsm is a bit of an oxymoron, its probably more like a restrain kink than a full on bdsm.
Bdsm is about the power dynamic between two people. one has the power over the other, and the sub is completely submissive to the other. Tying yourself up is really not the same. you can come close I guess. by fucking yourself with a machine and denying yourself the abulity to change the setting, but in BDSM the top chooses whether to punish you or pleasure you and the sub is entirely at their mercy. An IOT based toy that will randomly select power/speed of function on a toy and you just surrender to it.
There is an open source website which connects interactive sex toys with various different things, games, music, even online giving randoms a chance to control your toy. I wont name them because LH forum admins seem a bit heavy handed with this stuff. they took down a post recommending a spotify podcast recently.
I do the random stuff with porn selection, have some scripts that will play a porn at random from my hard drive and I dont change it, watch it from start to finish. Its a bit of a self restraint.
Trouble is a machine will take no notice of a safe word.
still a lot safer to those comrades who passed from doing self asphixiation bdsm.
But you do control the parameters that the machine operates in. You could set up a fucking machine to move with a music playlist and the songs change at random, and the sex machine follows the tempo of the songs. If tyou’re doing this on yourself, you’d probably never completely lock yourself out, you’d probably have some means to jump off the hot seat, or hit a kill switch.
I think the bottom line is another human having power over you is what makes it sexy, giving power to AI, algorthym or a simple script is just not the same.
Its like how women prefer being fucked hard with a real average size dick than a dildo. because its the whole experience of someone else desiring you so much and ravishing you must be a whole nother level of mental arousal that you dont get from a toy.
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I have seen timer lock boxes before, where the person will put the remote control inside, and leave the vibrator on until the timer unlocks the box and lets them shut it off. Something like that could be a thought?
Happy to help, it’s what the forum is here for and it collective brain is kinky as ……
@HungJ
Sorry but I need to be pedantic about this, and that is not correct. BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, submission, Sadism and Masochism. It isn’t entirely about power exchange. Not everyone who considers themselves into BDSM actually does all of it.
Dominance and submission aren’t truly doable solo, and discipline is doesn’t really work that well either, bondage and SM are achievable solo.
The introduction at the start of this topic suggested that it isn’t possible to spank yourself. However I would disagree, self spanking can certainly be carried out, admittedly in a somewhat more limited and milder way than if done so by someone else.
You can use your hand or short implements like a ruler 
, wooden spoon 
, a hairbrush etc. Being single it becomes necessary to be adaptable to your circumstances, employing some imagination and fantasy, rather than completely miss out on whatever provides enjoyment and pleasure. This applies here as well as to other aspects of sexual activity.
It is important to maintain discipline after all and to ensure that misbehaviour is dealt with. My fantasy mistress certainly expects this! 