Hi all, im new here, but wanted some thoughts from you guys.
I’m in a long term relationship everything’s great, but I have this desire to be alot more experimental and wilder in the bedroom. I want to try more kinky things, I want my girlfriend to want/like this too.
Now I'm scared to talk to her about being more adventurous in bed, because I get the feeling from the past that she's may not like what she would class as 'slutty' things. I accidentally bought her crotchless panties (didn't know they were crotchless when I bought them), but thought this might be fun. She didn’t take it well. Also she only lightly trims her pussy, when talking about other styles because it came up on tv, she asked what I liked. I said what ever made her feel comfortable, but hinted I wouldn’t mind it clean shaven (I would prefer some hair, but would like to have it shaven for a change/bit of fun, never know might like it!).
So all this and more make me think she wouldn't like what I would like to try with her (Fantasy role play, cumming on her, her talking dirty, her wanting to pleasure me) and if I were to ask I would get a negative reaction and or she wouldn’t see me in the same light.
On the other hand I do get hints she has a naughtier side. She does on the rare occasions she gives me a bj swallow my cum. She has talked dirty before and bought some lingerie.
Is there a inner experimental naughty girl in there? And if there is what’s holding it back? I tried asking about her fantasies and if there was anything she wanted to do that we were not already doing, but she didn’t really come up with anything.